Messages By: mamatam

Are we as a society so dumb not to realize what is or is'nt right for any time slot. Get a grip!

I was an abused child, not by my parents. After a long time I realized it wasn't my parents fault .

They believed like I did ,I could trust this person.  Later on we all found out we couldn't.  I'm 44 now, we can try to tell our children how and do what we can to our best abilitiy to ensure their safety, but sometimes bad things happen to good people!  Hindsight is always 20/20!  But the real world you have very few chances to be right all the time.  We all need to do the best we can and own up to when we are not.

Some statistics say that if you were abused then you will abuse.  I am a survior, not a victim of sexual abuse.  I have never done anything like what happened to me nor will I.  I was a single mother of 3 boys, now adults , my greatest fear was I couldn't be with them 24/7.  But I also taught them things my parents didn't know how to teach me.  But  I also didn't let my boys know why I had the fears for them that I did.  What happened to me I hope and pray no child should ever go through, but as a parent I could not tell my boys what happened to me either.  They needed to have a life, as a parent I needed to make them safe.  Thank God I did!!!!

I applaud your last 2 guests wholehardly!! But the dentist, what was he thinking?  There were so many wrong things he did.  And his attitude was amazing!!  Has he been in the gas at his office or what?  Nobody would or should follow his lead on how to take action in that situation!!!  I could not understand him showing no emotion or taking no responsibility for his own actions!!