Messages By: juicepole

What do you do when the father pays child support and the mother is mad at the father and keeps the child from him? What do you do when the mother files false claim of child abuse, sexual abuse and then blames the stepbrother for molesting his stepbrother also? What do you do when the mother has been told repeatedly by the family law judge that this cannot continue but it does and the mother postpones every courtdate?

Well, this happened to us. Now, we are fighting back and fighting back mad. We are now suing for sole custody of the child. The child has been told to lie on the father and his stepbrother. I really cannot say any more about this until court date comes around. I will be posting another bulletin to let everyone know how it went.

Another thing I want to talk about is an organization that is in West Virginia. It is called MEN AND WOMEN AGAINST DISCRIMINATION. We are trying to pass 4 bills into legislation. It is paternity fraud, 50/50 shared parenting, false claims of abuse, another one about intentionally witholding the child from the other parent. A parent knows if they file these false claims that they will get temporary custody of the child, mostly women. The child will be "molded into what to say". (This happened to us)

I would love to see Dr. Phil have this group on his show. Not only does this fraud affect the father and the child, if affects the grandparents that think of that child as their grandchild, the aunts, uncles and cousins who think they are related to this child also. It affects the grandparents who didnt know they had a grandchild and all those missed years. All of this is due to the mother keeping the truth and keeps on telling the lies to cover it all up.

I belong to a group called Men and Women Against Discrimination. (MAWAD) We had a law recently passed that held the custodial parent liable for false allegations. We are about a parent who can't see their child(ren) due to lies the other parent tells law enforcement, judges and magistrates to keep the child away.

My husband saw his one weekend since 06/05 until 12/07. In Dec. of last year, we got custody. But all of this has been going on since May 2001. False charges about the child being burnt, she done it. Bruises on the child, his arm and butt, done by his mother but who do you think she blamed? The father. I was accused of causing the son so much stress that she had to admit him to a mental hospital. I proved that she told the doctors what she wanted them to know without even talking to us to ask us what happenend that weekend. My husband was put in jail for felony child abuse. When the Pros. Atty told her if she found out she was lying and SHE was the one who caused the abuse, SHE would lose the child and go to jail and did she want to go thru with the charges. The mother dropped the charges after that. But we were out of 2500 lawyer fee.

I think a parent like her should go to jail to "learn a lesson" about filing all the false charges. She even told the child to say that the father molested him, that my son molested him and my father in law witnessed it all and done nothing. When it got down to the State Police and the Pros. Atty. getting involved, everybody realized the child "recited" the store verbatim to everybody who talked to him. (CPS, police, Kids Rights, Pros. Atty, and Guardian Ad Litem) To this day he will tell you his mom "told him to do it or go to foster care". You dont scare a child into doing what you want.

The child didnt ask to be born. The child didnt ask to be put in the middle. We just found out that the mother is not brainwashing the child into what to say when the new court date comes about. If this is brought up in court, I think the mother should lose visitation unless its supervised.