Messages By: babyshaun

I completely agree with what you said and I am truly angry and upset regarding your own personal situation with your son's father.  It infuriates me that men can just get away with such things and leave us, women to deal with the situation on our own.  I guess that it is partly the reason why I have become celibate.  I'm going through a similar situation w/ my son's father who has chosen to move away to work as a contractor for six months rather than be here with his son at a critical and very important time in his life(our son is 15 months old).  He needs to have his father around, especially when they are so young.  Anyways,  I couldn't believe that Maria could get away with something like that.  I don't know who told her that a man that is not the biological father is obligated to pay child support, but she needs to go get her head examined.  Enrique shouldn't have to be forced to pay, it should be negotiable and up to him.  I hope that if they do take this to court, that the judge will agree.  I do feel truly sorry for Selena though.  Enrique is not only a victim, but a betrayer as well.  How could you leave a little girl whom you cared, loved, and provided for all these years?  Then up and leave like that as soon as you find out that she is not biologically yours.  What an a**hole!  If I was Selena,  I wouldn't want to be around him for awhile until I emotionally heal from this.  I think she will eventually, but it 's gonna take some time for her.  And what was up with Enrique's new wife?  She got on my last nerve!  Look, I think we all understand that he was betrayed by Maria and that it was not right that she had the affair to begin with and then lied all these years that Selena was genetically his.  But, was it me or did I not hear Dr. Phil address/explain that he agreed with her after she kept repeating herself so many damn times.  It's like, clean the earwax out of your ears, lady!  Anyways, it was just a very emotional, sad, and frustrating situation.  I felt so heartbroken when I saw and heard Dr. Phil talk to Selena.  I wanted so badly to reach through the tv into his green room and give her a hug.  I don't think he did that when he talked her, huh?  Well, I would have. Anyways, hopefully all well will ends well for this family in the future.