Messages By: volpentesta

I am kind of half and half on this one I just got done watching it on tv and it made me so angry on some of the parts that I had to go on Dr.Phil and make a name just so I could tell what I thought about this, I am from a split family and it is very hard on kids and I know that because I have been going through it since I was six. I believe that fathers should get a test done no matter what they think if its there child or not it should just be done. My father never wanted anything to do with me untill I was six years of age and it was very hard on me to go to a house with 5 other kids that I have never met in my life and stay the whole weekend and not only that but call a guy "dad" that was a stranger to me. I strongly believe that it is all about the child when you are in a split family, when you hurt a child it effects them tramendusly and causes major problems like decrease in grades, problems with there social life and so on if a child dont feel safe with a parent or has never had a relation ship with them then it should not be forced apon that child. You cant just build a relation ship with some one you dont trust or you have bad feelings for, it just dont work like that. And its not right.