Messages By: debrasatt

m sister can't seem to mange her money.She has gotten a hellof alot of money from my mom who is on a f ixed income.Her  son cameup to visit  He brought  only fivehundred dollers with him to last two months.We on other ocations have ended up buying him clothes.My sister keepscalling him and telling him They are all going to  be  evicted if he does not give her and his sister his  money.My nephew all ready sent her a  hundred dollers.He is so upset here that   he is making m house upset.I have  my own things to deal with and also can't give her any money.His sister is no better she emails him saying it is his fault she is staivng and they will have no place to live.Iwon't talk to her or answerthe phone anymore.I know she has askedmy mom for money my mom said no.I wastold that she got money from her jhova wittness church members.I am at a loss I don't want my nephew to loss his home.How much of this is lies and how much isthe truth? I havent' touched anyof his money but he needs shoes and pants and a jacket.Do Itell him to send the money to her or do I let him buy the things he needs???

I told my nethew I was tired  of the problem his mom was causing.I said even  though he is in school and this was his last year,he needs to find a job not just use his ss checks but a job.and pay 1 third of all bills.To the palces not to his mom cause if he feels he can't trust her to paythe bills,then don't give her the money.Itold him I was sorry for him but I really don't want to get involved.I have stayed out of this so far.Indon't care if he sends her all of his money but I can't pay for all his needs up here he will go without.The fun stuff.Iwould likehim togo back home so I  don't have to deal with her.My sister is mad at me She thinks I am telling not tosend her money .I just can't deal with her calls and him being mad all day. This is his decsion not mine.What do I do to get this to stop.I havetried to talk to her but she wants money.I don't have any to give!!!!

My nethew found his birth father on myspace last night.He wasn't  a very nice man.My sister had to hide from him to get away.The man has droped so many kids and my nethew  would like to find his brothers and sisters.But how do you find your brothers and sisters when you don't know there names or who there moms are.My nethew is confused he wants to meet his fother but does not know how to do it our if his father will  reject him.His father has remarried and has more kids unknown as to weather they are brothers or sister but he has epressed an intreast in meeting  them.The man is his father same name same face and is living in the same place where my nethew was born.What should I do encouraging him to reach out ??? How do would you help him find his brothers and sister who are out there by this man??How should  I help him reach out to these new siblings fromhis father without beiing cut off???I am unsure as to what todo???my nephew does not want his mom she is still afraid of him???How should he contact him there is no phone number just  a picture of  him and  a short bio.What  do I do???some one out there please give me some answers as to how to help my nephew  and find his siblings and get in contact with his birth father.What  should I do????

my newphew found his birth father.should he or should he  not contact him.his father has dropped kids all over.my nephew is one of many.he really wants to find his brothers and sisters.But how would he do that.He wants answers from his father.But nhow realistic is that.The man was a lier and could never keep a job.The man has created about8 kids by different  ladies.

my sister  married a man like  this.He never changed.He left her with kids and no support.His kids haven't seen him that they can remember.He has kids right and left all have  never had one once of  support.I hate men like this and can't figure out why people don't run when they  see  these men they are not hard to spot.my mother in law had one of these men living with her till she died.they  had to throw  him  off .her properly.This man out lived her by several  years.He claimed  to be dieing

 My husband  never follows  through  with  what  he says  he is  going to do.My   son has  autism  and   has constant  stomach  problems.My h  said to me Iwill  take  care of  this.I will get his  problem checked out myself  don't worry about  it.Now   he  is saying  what  am  suppose  to do Ican't figureitout  why  should I do this.  Why doIhave  to hold your hand..Isaid   yournot I have raised  our  kids with  little help  from  you .I  have taken  our  son  over and  over  to   the doc.They  take a  quick   look  and  Tell   me it   is all  in  his head and send me home.We  need  someone to look at who knows what they are doing  to find out what is wrong with  him.My husbands response to me  is well  then you do  it..I have tried  I would like some help  Iamsotired of having a  husband  who  the only thing  he is good  and wants to do  is pay the bills  and sleep  complain and sometimes yard  work.Our son needs help  Idon'tknowwere to  get   it?????

My son really hates this school.He hate most of the kids and has one friend.He is so behind with his credits it is not funny.We have him on a IEP but he is stuck in classes with the kids who have anger problems.My son has PDD.He has learned the worst of the worst things at school like how to lie cuss and be deceptive.He has turned into a angry child.None of these things I have ever taught him.My other two kids are turning out fine.but my son worries me and breaks my heart.I am not sure how to help him out.The bulling and struggles to fit in have mad him a depressed and angry child.the struggles with this school have made me very frustrated and angry also.the school has and always does blame my son.So he has become what they have blamed him for.How do I do right by my son and help him become as much as he can be???I can't fight anymore I just want what is  best for My son?? I  live in Washington state.Every time I try find a way to educate him a different way the school district denies me the alternative .How do I help my son????

My  sons  teacher decided to make   the  whole  classes  watch the new prsidents cerimony  during  class.He chose to work on some work for the  class that wasdue  the following  week. She was upset  with  him.He got written up.This  puzzlesme why was he  forced  watch it  when  class time should havebeen  spent  doing  something  more  todo  with  the class.Fine  people voted him in.Why  should my songet  in to  t rouble for  wanting   work  on  class  work  and not  watch this  program????  I did  my part I voted.The   program  had  nothing  todo with the class.So what  it   was onther  persident  got   voted in.I have  never watched any  of  the  cerimonies.To boreing.

i came from a close family not a perfect one but a close one .I talk to my sisters and mom every week or so.we all grew up in the same house.We are all very close in age so we do get into auguments.My dad has passed awy after being married to my mom for 56 years.

 my husband is the result of a second marriage of bothe parents his dad was 25 years older then his mom and his children were out of the house and having kids of thier own.his moms child was a tot.My husband came along whaen her kid was grown.his dad died shortly after his was born.all those siblings of his were grown and gone when he was being brought up by his 50 60 year old mom.she was delpressed from losing her husband.My husband always tells ower kids and people that his family is very close.I just say nothing about my family.At my dads funeralhe said yet agian he wants to be bureid by his mom and dad not next to me not cool.I can't figure this out he always says he loves me;my kids know all of my sisblings and cusins.our kids do not know any of his only by what  he tells of them.our childeren don't know his siblings or the cucins at  all.I once was told by one of them that they told  there parnet that they would keep him envoled but that was to make that parent happy not that they would do it.both of his parent dead.I don't understand why he lives in this fantisy of a close net family.our kids don't know them hardly at all I  have to really think about who he is talking about and when he dies most will have passed on and the other won't know who is is.So why does he keep telling me and the kids his family is so close and want to be bured next to his parenst and not me???