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October 29, 2007, 3:43 pm PDT

10/29 Parent Trap

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Women who pass their kids off as someone else's should be ashamed of themselves.  It is women like that who make it hard for women like me.  My ex husband has been denying our 18 year old son since before he was born.  Never mind that I have always been willing to have my son tested.  He is over $20.000 behind in child support and hasn't seen my son in 11 years.  I thank God for my current husband; a real man who has taken on the responsibility of being my son's "dad".

I read most of the comments on the board after watching the show today...I think that the mother of this wonderful young lady is totally responsible for every hurt the yound lady is experiencing.  I do not feel that the "fake" father did the right thing by blurting it out to the kid and refusing to have visitation, but I can understand why he was forced to do that....by knowing what he now knew, if he continued to act as a father, he would have to continue to pay support, something he did not feel he should do.  He has to live with that...but the fact remains, the mother cheated, lied, and covered up her guilt...it was only her who knew the truth!  That Gloria lawyer acted so outraged when she said, "let's not point fingers..." but only when the finger pointing was at anyone other than the poor guy who was cheated on and lied to!!!

 

It appears that the young lady will be hurt by all this, but she appeared to be doing better than a lot of kids that have not gone through such hurts....a fine young lady.  She learned young that life is not always rosey, people lie and manipulate...and that is ashame. But, well, it is life.  I do not think the man should pay another penny towards child support.  And I hope the little girl grows up realizing it was the mother's fault!!!

 

Juri

 

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