I couldn't believe my eyes when I started watching Maury's show on how many woman that knew in their heart that they have slept with another man or many men and blamed some man for being the father of their child ,and when the results come back that the man is not the father, they go running off the stage crying, and screaming! It makes me sick and even embarrased to be a woman sometimes! There should be a law in place, if she tells you that she is pregnant, someone with a paternity test should be present and it should be manditory that both parties take it! This should cut out the welfare rolls, all of the lies and the B.S. Any woman that would stoop so low to keep a man, or to get money through child support should be ordered to pay that money back to the man, get jail time and maybe get the child taken away from you b/c you are not a mother, that makes you a golddiggin' h--!! And it's not about the child, if he IS NOT THAT CHILD'S FATHER, then he SHOULD NOT have to take care of it! It seems to me that Selena was relieved to know that that man was not her father, he probabaly did not let her do what she wanted to do and this stepfather seems more like he's trying to be her friend, instead of a father figure! I feel as though she will get over it! And to the mother, she needs to sit her child down and tell her who her real father is and go find him! Nasty A-- women make me sick!! I agree with you to the lady that wrote this: Women like her makes it bad for a dam good woman like me!! I fought in the gulf war for my kids!!! Get a job and stop laying on your backs!! From A real woman!!