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October 29, 2007, 3:48 pm PDT
Parent Trap
Quote From: manofgoodsHmmm...what I believe is that women like Maria are afraid to tell the men that their child isn't theirs, because they are afraid that he is going to leave her, & her family, & that's what I can understand on. It also happened with Frankie & Gwen a few weeks ago (just titled "Frankie & Gwen"). I also have to say that women like her aren't evil creatures. True, what she did was wrong, but probably has a good reason, & that women do bad things just as the men, but they're definitely not evil. No matter what bad things they have done, I would never degrade women, like calling them awful names & such, because they're totally disrespectful. I also think that the man should continue to be in her life, just because he's been in her life for so long. If I was in the man's situation, I would continue to be there for the child, & support him/her. Should DNA matter? Absolutely not. I'm sorry but I think that is a really lame excuse to trap a man into staying with you. All it does is ruin the mans life and the child life even more. It is all the womans fault! If she would just tell the truth in the first place or better yet keep her pants on, then none of this would happen anyway. The man should be able to see the child without paying child support. The man can't just walk away from the child after so many years. If he can do that then he is no better than she is. The mother is the one that has done this to her own child not only the man. I know so many people say it takes a real man to stay for the child but it also takes a real woman to stand up and tell the truth in the beginning for her child. I have 3 children and could never imagine putting one of them through that. The woman should be the one to pay. The man shouldn't be punished for actually standing up and paying for a child he thought was truly his. He has already payed for years. The woman knows who the real father is go get the rest of the money from the real father.
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