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October 30, 2007, 12:13 pm PDT

Deal with the present ...

The mother should be legally bound to pay back every penny - plus interest! Just as she would demand for past child support if he had been the real dad. Now, right or wrong it is the non-biological dad's decision (and Selina's) as to their future. I would hope he would treat her as though Selina really was his own daughter and put away a trust fund for her when she is older. That way the mother can't get her hands on it, and he can redeem himself a little. As for the mother ... obviously she has issues with reality.
 
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October 30, 2007, 12:21 pm PDT

You are next buddy ...

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Hmmm...what I believe is that women like Maria are afraid to tell the men that their child isn't theirs, because they are afraid that he is going to leave her, & her family, & that's what I can understand on. It also happened with Frankie & Gwen a few weeks ago (just titled "Frankie & Gwen"). I also have to say that women like her aren't evil creatures. True, what she did was wrong, but probably has a good reason, & that women do bad things just as the men, but they're definitely not evil. No matter what bad things they have done, I would never degrade women, like calling them awful names & such, because they're totally disrespectful. I also think that the man should continue to be in her life, just because he's been in her life for so long. If I was in the man's situation, I would continue to be there for the child, & support him/her. Should DNA matter? Absolutely not.
Women can to be evil. You need to wake up!
 
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October 30, 2007, 12:29 pm PDT

100%

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The part that got me was Gloria, the woman lawyer. She is such a moron. She ignored everyone to spew her message, which, by the way, had NOTHING to do with the show. She's an idiot in my book. What a waste of good air time!
I AGREE!
 
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June 19, 2008, 9:10 pm PDT

you do not have a clue...

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I watched the last show about this kid and her mom and I think the problem is dear old mom. It seems to me the mother just wants Alex to raise herself and stay out of the moms way. What ever happened to good parents? Why can't she love her daughter enough to keep her home? I think the mom needs help more than Alex. I think Alex needs a stable home life away from her family because up until now her mom seems to be doing a crappy job. Learn to treat your children with love, treat them how you would want to be treated by a parent if you were a child. THINK, LEARN LOVE your kids

I use to think like you - "it must be the parents fault" until I raised a daughter in a good environment with much love and guidance and did not have the ideal results.

 

I think you may want to put yourself in the shoes of some other occassion when you did the best you could with a person in your life (I am sure there is someone), and they did not do precisely what you thought they should have done.

 

Judging someone when you have not been in their circumstances can be very costly.

 

Not judging them and having compassion ... priceless.

 

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