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November 2, 2007, 3:43 pm PDT
Healing America is so simple, UGH!!!!!! Health!!!
Dr. Phil, and those on these boards,
There are tools such as Nonviolent communication by Mashall Rosenberg and The work of Byron Katie
"Out beyond ideas of right doing and wrong doing, there is a field, i will meet you there." Rumi
That field is non-judgment!!!
That
field is love: seeking to understand from the heart my own feelings and
unmet needs/desires and seeking out those persons freely open and
willing to meet my needs/desires, without force, without demands. That
field is caring and genuinely empathizing (reflecting) others feelings
and unmet needs from the heart, not the head, through real love...the
love we each truly are...the light and divinity we truly are diretly
linked to our source, what most call God and I call REAL LOVE!
Fritz
Perls said, "Lose your mind and come to your senses"...for me this
means teach others with your actions how you want to be treated by
being kind and assertive vs. aggressive or passive....aggression and
passivity come out of being afraid and dishonest about ones shadow
self; assertive comes from knowing thyself and being truly loving to
oneself and not enabling dysfunctional unhealthy behavior.
Steve S.
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