Messages By: jammaw45

He brought out a valid point. Her husband was a molestor...he married his molestee. I think the husband is just protecting her to protect himself.

Why did she refuse the polygraph? Shows deception by refusal. Dr. Phil I've watched you with men accused of the same thing as she is accused of. You went after them tooth and nail...you  soft pedalled on her.

Why not dig deeper into the relationship between her and her husband. You might find the reason she why she has offended herself....also her childhood.

Sincerely,

Melody

Come on every one you need to get real. Why is it there are 3 and I mean 3 separate accusers and one is from 6 years ago! They have no relationship between the 2 younger boys and the older one.

The one who dropped it all, probably sees what the other one has gone through and is afraid.

When I was a child my father molested me and my sister. I told and went through hell!!! How much more embarrassing for a boy who is supposed to be macho!!!!!! Especially with all the music videos that have been aired on the subject.

You think they just wanted exposure???? I don't! I think that this teacher got away with this legally just like OJ Simpson did with murder. But it is the public who has to do the punishing because of a messed up justice system.

Hold on aminute!!! He was sitting across from her not next to her and she kept leaning forward and  he kept leaning back. 

I do feel he probably imbellished some on his version, but I feel there was some inappropriate actions on her part. The truth lies somewhere in the middle.

Remember she was not acquitted, it caused a mistrial. How many mistrials have been retried and then the person is found guilty?

Thank you for answering the question about her and her husband. 1 yr  definitely shows me that he had an inappropriate  with her while she was still in school.

Going back to my previous statement........ Since her boundaries were crossed by him, she has no moral or ethical sense of teacher/student  relations. I feel she went too far, but the boys went too far also.

I was molested from the age of 8 til age 14 by my dad and I can't remember the smells or all of the different places he assaulted me at or in. Just becasue you can doesn't mean everyone is like you or that is the only way it is.

This is why they don't like to put any child under 17 on the stand!!!!! They waffle embellish and freak out. Matt is a classic example of what happens when exposed to molestion whether mildly or not.

I took the route of no emotion to the extreme. The only time I showed any emotion was when backed in a corner after being attacked by those in authority who did not believe me. I can see that in every bit of him.

Matt I sincerely hope and pray that you are in counselling. I am now 45 and still have troubles from my molestation. You are young enough, please get help. Keep your chin up and don't let anyone tell you you are bad for blowing the whistle. Don't fret the details, she was messing up on details tooo.

Yes he would to minimize the embarrassment of  having someone take advantage of him. It makes it  funny ,taking away the hurt aspect, thereby  hiding the real feelings of confusion, hurt and anger.

I don't believe everything he is saying, He does embellish or rather he is covering memory lapses and not too well. What happened to the other boys, he probably took and added to his trying to  back up their statements.

 I do believe the teacher crossed the line and left herself wide open. No teacher in their right mind, no matter how hold writes coded notes to students. Especially teenage boys! No teacher should ever take male teenage students on rides alone  with her.

I realize that her husband tried backing her up . Did you catch his expressions when Dr. Phil questioned him? He looked to the left several times before answering the question and then did not look at Dr. Phil, he looked at the boy.

He wasn't 21 when this occurred and has been  consistently attacked  since then.

Every one defends the teacher's affects. I am defending Matt's.

As far as the "poem" goes, did he mention her name or  class in it? and how old was he when he wrote it?

Did he go to college? It may have been there that he wrote the poem.

About  his statement: ( I may not get every word verbatim) "I didn't want her to go to jail, I just wanted to make sure she didn't teach again". The  victim, especially a teenage boy, takes in everyone saying a boy cannot be raped, so they turn it into play. This takes away the emotional aspect.

Matt squirmed when asked how he felt. I think it is much better to be detached......Dr. Phil got beyond that and he started cracking. BUT and I mean BUT he never once backed down from his story.

The lie detector test: 2 questions were posed,covering all of the case. It shoulod have been broken down into point- by -point basis. They were toooo generalized and yes it would show dec eption that way. Especially if the boy embellished some.

I think it needs to be redone and the teacher need to take another one too.

 You are responding as if there was only one accuser. There were 3 and probably a lot more than those, but were too embarrassed  to come forward. Boys unlike girls are vilified as being the approachers. Yes I believe he has "lied" some. I also believe she stepped over the line.

The notes were the give away. She didn't deny writing them just  disputed the meaning. Number one:the note was to a boy. Number two:not once have I heard any of her female students say she asked them over for  French parties and overnighters. Number three :I have not heard any of the "friendliness" directed toward her  female students.

I would like to hear feed back from some of the females in her classes from 6 years ago.