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August 19, 2006, 6:13 pm PDT

orphanage Homes

Why is it so hard to get orphanage homes investigated? You would be surprise how the kids are overlooked and emotionally neglected. The orphanage homes keeps a well kept yard and what appears to be a well kept houses. If you look in detail in these houses, you would find water bugs that they claim they can't get rid of and dirty garbage cans with food stuck to the bottom of these can with clean trash bags in them.  Also you would find carpet that appears to be clean until you take off your shoes and walk barefoot which the bottom of your feet would be black. That is because the vacuum cleaner is broke and they will not buy another one. Also the bath tubs and showers has dirty rings in them from not being cleaned. Also the refrigerated has food molded with the expiration date of a year or more. Most of these kids has parent that the DSS claim was so bad that they had to place them in an orphanage. Most of these kids get worst once they are in the home for a few weeks. Some kids that are young as 3 and 4 says the worst curse words you have ever heard. Also a little boy shows signs of being sexual abuse from when his parents takes him for days and weeks at a time, but the home don't seem to see an urgency to report it. The other kids are picking up on these bad behaviors. I wish that someone would investigate these orphanage homes and determine what there problem is. I think these homes are getting well paid by the DSS and they want everything to appear to be good.

 
May 2, 2007, 4:11 pm PDT

orphanage Homes

Quote From: bluesilver

 

Which country did you see this?  UK?  If you saw this first hand, would it not be possible to take pictures on your phone maybe?  Then go into DSS ask for right department and tell them that if your complaint is not dealt with swiftly, you will take the story to the tabloids to see what they think of it. If you don't feel comfortable doing it yourself - show a really motivated person perhaps a church leader or a teacher and get them to push it.  Also write a letter to your MP and say you are fed up that no -one pays attention and soon you will have no option but to go to the tabloids to get attention for these children.Also good that you speak out on here,  :)

I did contact  the toll free hot line for neg. and abuse children. I was refer to the State DSS and they told me to contact my local DSS which was a big mistake. That Social Worker was very angry at what she was hearing and told me to report it to the Administrator of the Home. I informed her that he already new about it and chose to ignore the need of those children. This Social Worker told me off in several different ways to my surprise. I had pictures of the water bugs, dirty trash cans and several more things in that children home, but no one wanted to hear about it. I recently contacted the candidates running for office, but so far none of them have brought that subject up in there debates. Now I understand why it goes on for 30, 40, 50 yrs before justice is served. What can we do to save those children? No one will listen to a grandmother, so why would they listen to kids that they have labeled being a problem child.
 
May 2, 2007, 4:22 pm PDT

lazy kids

Quote From: starwoman

 First I must say I had to laugh when I read your message... Please know I mean this in a good way.   I too have teens and they also can be inconsiderate so it home to me...  If I may I would like to make a couple of personal suggestions. 

 #1 accept them for being TEENS remember they were not brought up with YOUR values since you were a young child.  Sometimes kids are just kids for no reason at all and behave like kids :)

#2 eating you out of house and home is what they do best *smiling*.  One thing I did was give them some control meaning... they came up with how to fix it by writing their name on some of the stuff claiming their portion of the goodies and drinks.    That was their idea and it works (most of the time       

#3  Get involved with them in some activities like bowling, mini golf, bike riding, walks, movies....  Play board games with them at the table... great opportunity to really know how they feel and whats going on with them if you get involved WITH them....

 

ENJOY THE GOOD >>>>HAVE FUN WITH THEM <<<<IT WONT BE LONG BEFORE THEY MOVE ON

The orphanage home is the blame for that amount of laziness. Apparently they are not required to due chores or daily activities. At this point there is not much you can do, because the majority of there time is spent at the orphanage. I would talk to there cottage parent or house parent and see what is required of them. Also ask the Orphanage Home if they are preparing these kids for the real world.
 

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