Messages By: edmicequeen

it never ceases to amaze me the amount of girls who fall prey to this .

I myself have been approached several times on the net from guys from that country and yes they sound all sweet and nice of course they do .....BUT let the truth me known read the curan it is in there religion woman in there country are atool not a gem it is not really there fault they do not know any better children learn what they live .....BUT we do not accept that kind of abuse as a society .....I hope this works out and she sees what its really all about before it is too late

I just wanted to add to my post because i was feeling as though i was not fair to the muslim community let it be known that all races have bad eggs . BUT unfortunately because the lack of government protection for woman in there community we have been given a very bad view of how woman are treated in there country . Seeing the way Katherine was reacting to her "boyfriends" presence raised red flags all over . After reading the messages on here it is obvious that i was not the only one he raised red flags for.

He obviously is after more than her love ......As the show ended and they showed her saying he had hit her all I could do is yell out loud I knew it he looks like an abuser . I have been abused I can pick them out I hope she learns to aswell .

this wade well he has wife slapper written all over his face i saw that from day one .

Also because I have been with an abuser I can tell you that he will never change he may say he will

till one day when you set him of just like someone else did .

You could see his temper when he went after Jack there .

Wade made a few good points but wow temper temper .

And well i think that she doesnt see him as a murderer / rapist /liar

as there mates you get so used to pretending you believe everything just to keep the peace that you to have trouble distinguishing bettween the truth and not .

I hope for the kids sake they both get the help they need.

Really where was here head trying to overdose with all those kids in her world .

No not fair to them . The kids should always come first .

I was involved my sons father and he drankk to much and came from the family where he had watched his father strike his mother and he thought thatwas right .

I used that and several others as excuses for several years till one day he reached out to hit my baby . The next day i ran away with my baby in hand . Over the next two years he broke in to places i lived sabotaged jobs I had and was a constant shadow . Causing hell everywhere he went .

Using the excuse I drove him to it he began to do heroine and other injectable drugs

Within a month of him discovering his new and wonderful life he was dead he had been shot dead in the basement of one of the biggest drug dens in this city . Shot by the very people he was making money for .

Standing at his graveside I smirked to myself because I always told him one day he would pay . Yet scarily i was torn emotionally ........To be honest it is easy to forgive the hell you no longer live .

Never for get it was there .....

In short if you see a chance and have thought about it listen to your inner voice .

I really thought only I lived with the daily nightmares of the abuse I went threw for years . It started when i was going into grade three and was a weekly thing . Every thursday night my parents went out and every night my brother abused me physically mostly sexually.

When he got violent he became aroused then it turned into a rape . It happened so many times I could never count . I have tried everything to get passed this and decided to write a book maybe that would help and i have been working on it for years. Everytime I get working on it i get physically sick and have to stop. I know i am pulling at memories I have away but really physically sick.

A few years ago my sister told my mom that this had happened under her nose for years and she never knew. (BUT thats a wholle other story in itself)    In a quest to deal with her grief now mom asks me questions about it and I really dont know how to feel about that either .

My brother died when i was 16 which I cant say I was sad about yet he haunts me everyday .

I truely believe thats why I have such a problem with guys ....I dont date because i ATTRACT ABUSERS

I lived threw one and wont make that mistake again.

SO THANKS for letting me babble and if anyone has any suggestions on how to get rid of these ghosts I would welcome it .

I have been following this story closely as years ago I lost a good friend the same way .

Basically I think this article I will quote from the local paper here says it all .

Mideast   Saudis defend gang rape verdict

Saudi Arabia defended yesterday a courts decison to sentence a woman who was gang raped to 200 lashes of the whip after united states described the verdict as astounding .

The 19 year old Siite woman and an unrelated man companion was abducted and raped by seven men in 2006. Last week the womans sentence was raised to 200 lashes and six months in prison for being alone with an unrelated man.

Obviously the government in those countrys does not protect woman the way they are protected in countries such as the states and canada .

There beliefs are different and there laws are extremely different .

I do understand internet love but I think one has to weigh in cultural differences aswell.

Looking forward to Mondays show .

Does the government have some form of a list and if not they should start one for people who have proven they live the way of there land and are not willing to change that .