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January 15, 2008, 12:01 pm PST

They need to know...

                            These girls need to know that there future needs to be thought about. They are not thinking clearly.Someday,they may choose to go into a profession that requires a background check.I don't care how much money you may have or your daddy has.You can't hide from your past especially if it is on the internet!! So, I hope these girls understand that good times now need to be in private.In these days we have to be on guard....Act like ladies!!
 
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February 19, 2008, 2:20 pm PST

She needs to take care

              Well,she needs to figure out what she wants in life.She needs to take care of herself.forget what he says or thinks.Yes,they need counseling but most of all she needs to make herself happy.Anyone who lives with someone like that and continues to let them treat them that way has some isuues with themselves.She needs to get herself healthy mentally,emotionally and physically and get away from him.I can say this because I was once in the same stiuation,I got myself healthy and got away from him and now I feel stupid for living with a slong as I did,but most important I got away and got help and then got healthy and happy....
 
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February 19, 2008, 4:26 pm PST

Sometimes you have to protect

          Yes,grandparents are very important to children but if the parents has any question what so ever  for the safety of that child they should step in and protect them.That could be mental,emotional or physical safety.I do believe that the conversation the parent and the child has about the grandparent should only be respectful to them.It is our duty as parents to protect them but also to teach them the right way.Any disrespectfulness or just being mean should stop.If you see your parents acting a way you don't like stop right there and break the cycle.Whatever you do,you be the one to be positive,teach  and show that child that you are  not like their grandparents. Fighting between each other has to stop if you want to stop the cycle.That is what I am doing with my children,there are some things that I don't agree with that my parents do but I have made it a point to teach my kids the correct way of whatever action they do that is not right.I am also teaching them to love and respect them even if you don't like their ways.
 

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