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February 5, 2008, 4:22 am PST
STOP PLAYING VICTIM AND GET SOME HELP
Quote From: jules1965Yes, Sheri IS going to continue this behavior........as long as she blames herself for the rape.
Sheri is a RAPE VICTIM and this behavior is often common among rape victims.
I'm so tired of the 'blame the victim' mentality when people don't have a CLUE what its like to be a rape victim!
I've been a rape advocate for over 2 years, I know Sheri because I WAS SHERI, I lived her life only much much worse. Sheri is SCREAMING FOR HELP and needs to seek counseling, preferably with a great rape crisis center where they are EQUIPPED to handle all the nuances that go with being a rape victim. If she needs further help they will set her up with a very qualified psychiatrist/psychologist/mental health services. What I'm tired of is this poor me attitude. Believe me, I'm not side stepping the fact that the girl may have been raped. And your right, I don't know what it's like. But come on, are you saying that all of this behavior shes been doing is because of the rape? Was it confirmed that the girl was raped? Listen if you have time to be going out on dates and visiting the Dr Phil show, then you have time to GO GET SOME HE:LP if thats the case. We are all responsible for our decisions we make in life. if shes that unhappy, then GO GET SOME HELP!!!!!!!!!!! When you stop playing vicim is only when you can move on in your life. I'm sorry, I don't mean to sound so cold, and I'm not a cold person. But I'm just sick and tired of people wandering around playing victim and not doing a thing about it except passing the word around out there of how sad their life is. GET UP AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!! STOP PLAYING VICTIM. People today have more excuses then carter has pills. Her kids here are the true victims. Her husband has choices too. GET OUT!!! That should be his choice.
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