Dear Dr. Phil,
I'm perhaps one of your biggest fans. Mainly because I like your no bull tactics. Here's a subject that should be touched on more often. Simply because from childhood up women live in a dream world. Thinking that love just falls out of the sky. Sadly most never know the real meaning of LOVE, therefore, have no idea of what they're looking for in their youth. Even worse through their life. How sad it is that women feel that these guys will bring them great happiness and fall for all their lies, etc. Someone should educate these women from youth up not to believe everything they hear from a guy regardless of his statue. If women would spend more time trying to get their own head together, keep their pants on and make it a firm resolution not to settle for anything less than what they want instead of trying to find Mr. Right then we would have a much better society today. Home is where the heart is. Sadly, most never know what home nor love really is. I'd love to tell everyone, follow the golden rules and your life would be much happier. I know because I've been there done that and can assure one and all. It's NOT worth the consequences. If you don't find TRUE love, then be happy alone. Do what you like to do and you might just find the real Mr. Right doing the same thing. Where it be a walk in the park, a visit to library, etc. NEVER stay at home hoping for the phone to ring from someone who cares only about self. Time slips away all too fast and life will pass you by in an instant. Therefore I encourage one and all to follow the golden rule and see the blessings in return. No more agony of what if. Once you realize what you'd really like in a mate. Just wait.. IF it's meant to be. He will appear when least expected. If not.. still you can be content with yourself and able to sleep at night.
Best wishes to all..
Nancy Whitaker
