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November 28, 2007, 10:35 pm PST

Lost weight but now what

Hello I am 26 yrs old and I lost about 100 lbs since i had my son.  I am finally happy with the weight but now what so I do with all that extra skin.  I hve been going back and forth with the way I look for a while my husband says he lvoes me no matter waht and I believe him.  I sometimes feel like a lie to my self and say to my self its enought that he loves me no matter what but do i love my self.  I try so hard not to feel nasty and uncomfortable becuse of the way I look I mean with clothes on its not so bad but when they come off.. I have looked into hte whole plastic surgery thing but its so expensive like another person posted she is in debt and need more work i am so scared of that becuse I know I can never afford this type of surgery, My question is how do you learn to live with it and is that it.  I mean all that hard work because i thought I was going to feel better and look better and now I feel worse.  I mean I am happy the weight is off becsue of my health but how do I come to terms about my stomach and arm and boobs, I am only 26 and i am scared that my husband is gong to later on look else where. Please help i need advise
 

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