Quote From: mimi_sdepends where you live. It can be changed as an assault. And don't forget civil liability. If he knew, and you can get medical records to show that he did, and he passed it on... Well he's liable my dear! Seek advice from a lawyer in your state / province / country...
Some people need to be reminded of their obligaiton to others...
allt eh best!
I recently found out that my husband of 24 years has had other sexual partners during our marriage. I also found out that he has herpes ( I found his Valtrex). I assumed he got it during his times of infidelity. He finally told me that he was diagnosed with Herpes before we ever met! I, of course, got tested and was found to be positive. I was so angry at him that my first reaction was to kick him out. After I calmed down I realised that if I got rid of him it would would mean that everything in my life would change and that all his responsibilties would fall onto my shoulders. I allowed him to stay, but, I am so sad and angry. I am trying to face the truth about myself, but I feel so abused and dirty and violated that my self esteem and confidence in myself has been shaken to the core. I can hardly stand to look at him, The fact of the matter is that I am begining to hate him, and when I look at myself, I hate what I see too. I don't know how this situation can be resolved because I am stuck in this place now and can't see a way to move ahead. How can anybody deal with such betrayal and manage to come out of it whole?
