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Dear Michelle,

I found out 2 years ago that my husband had a pornography addition that he's hidden throughout our 22 yr marriage.  I knew things were not right shortly after we married, but thought it was me.  I decided, I'd committed this union, had a child, and was going to make the best of it.

I discovered many things, both our children did as well.  My son and daughter were devasted on many levels to find out what he'd done, and continues to do.

 I know it takes an incredible amount of couage to imagine a life different than what you have...for yourself and for your children.

I wish us both the courage we need to believe life can be better.

Blessings  to you and your children,

Lora

Just reading the upcoming episode strikes a sensitive cord with me.  After 23 years of marriage, I served my husband at the end of July.  Kathy's husband now saying he's had a wake up call, makes me sick.  Mine loves to say he never saw it coming.  What is it with these men who refuse to take responsibility for what they do.  Kathy, I don't know the specifics of your situation, but I can only imagine it's taken quite a bit for you to get to this place.  Keep going until your freed from this guy whose ignored you for so long.  I guess those words are for me, but if they fit, you're welcome to them.  Good luck to you in the process.

I'm finding it completely awful and most days unbearable.

L