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January 19, 2008, 8:06 pm PST

Swinger that don"t have problems(Bullcrap)

With the divorce rate at 50%. Same sex weddings and child raising harder than ever. We might be smarter than monkeys and dumber than a stump. Where has morals gone to. I believe that any person who wants to see there love one for ever or have them see you with another person needs to explain love to me. Our children are dieing in mass numbers right in front of our faces. Guns, drugs, bullies, gangs. and negative roll models are what we are serving up to our young people today. Life is a hard enough struggle all by it's self. I am not a religious man per say and hope to ask my God allot of questions when and if I get the chance. Mostly why this and why that and I am sure he will explain to me the bigger picture.

   What scares me is what I will have to explain, the answers he will want when he ask. Why this or that. What ever happened to just good old com-en sense?

 

Wes Lancaster

Anchorage, Alaska

 
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November 7, 2008, 6:51 am PST

14 lost souls could be found or not

 

 This is the biggest group of cry babies I have seen in a while. When I saw them wasting time w/ Dr. Phil I began to resent all of them. I would give both arms to have this help and they cheat me and others by not jumping at this wonderful gift. With the exception of one or two I have and still do suffer each of there life experiences. I was beat and starved as a child. I was raped by loved ones. My grand Dad killed his self and I have tried many times to do the same. I also had a father whom didn't want me only his newer children. My parents never talked school to me. I have been married 4 times and my wife of present just married some one else. Oh she hasn't divorced me yet. I had two children stolen for ten years. They where my sober babies. As for child support for the drug guy. Cry over $25,000. I owe $250.000 yes one forth of a million dollars. My ex wife embezzled $480,000 while we where separated and the Feds took ever thing I had and had worker for all my life at 50 years old. I am a recovering drunk and addict. I have had many hours talking to Dr.'s and groups and even wanting there help I have failed at things. I could just keep going but why? From what I have seen. Either you want it and get it or you want it and keep trying to get it or you can just give in to your way and end up like me. Wake the hell up people

 
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November 7, 2008, 10:05 am PST

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Quote From: tootsie2929

It sounds like you still have a ton of anger in your heart. You should continue going to therapy! If you really wish that you had been on the show you should have written into the show when they were asking for guests for the retreat. I was one of the 14 and we were all hand picked to represent all the different problems that average people deal with but cover up. We all have issues and we were here to work on them. We did not waste any of his time. Remember that the show is edited! It would not be possible to show every minute of our 9 hour days of intense hard work. Anyways, I feel bad that you had a hard life but so have alot of people. I suggest you do the homework assignments that he gave us to do after each night. They are listed on the website. They may help you.
I really wonder if you got all this wisdom in two shows or 18 hours. This isn't about me wanting to be on the show. This is about how very lucky you where to of been picked out of how many? I have been to alot of therapy and now I can't afford it but at least I have kept trying. I am still alive and wishing for a better life someday. Do you really think you can judge the pain in my heart. All is possible with a higher power running my life. Didn't hear much about your God or faith in a higher power of your choice. There is help we all receive if we only listen to our hearts and messages.
 
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November 7, 2008, 4:51 pm PST

I hear your pain

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I wasnt meaning to judge you at all. I get a little upset when I read posts that are negative thats all. I know everyone has their opinions and thats fine but it is tough to read sometimes. I dont believe in god necessarily but I do have faith that their is something better for all of us one day. I feel blessed to have been on the show and it was actually 3 days consisting of at least 9 hours on stage plus our homework assignments which took at least 2 hours each night (plus we had hair and makeup each morning for almost 2 hours), so it was grueling and a process and we learned a ton about each other and ourselves. Honestly I feel so sad reading all these postsand hearing that there are so many people out there that are in need of help, but like I said in my last message, you should read and do the homework assignments that he had us do. They were a real eye opener.
I want to take this time to say. I hear your pain and I thank you for making time to share with me. In my life I have always been short of confidants. One of the miracles with treatment is just talking. I hope the very best for you.
 

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