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January 14, 2008, 7:02 am PST

Sad Little Boy

How I wish I'd seen this show 13 years ago.  Dr. Phil is right when he says it takes a child so long to recover from screaming like that.  I've been out of control with my daughter about 10 times in her life -- she's 16 now.  I think she still doesn't trust me the way she would have if I'd been more like Robin.  And, I usually get aggravated with Robin because she's so perfect.  But, I was so happy to see her up on that stage sitting next to that child.  His mother needs some deep psychological work.   Our children are with us for such a short time.  My child is 16 and will be leaving home soon.  Once they're gone, they're gone.  How I wish I had it all back to do over.
 
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February 6, 2008, 12:07 pm PST

Wait a minute, please

I am currently taking pain medication for a variety of ailments.  I don't believe that this have interfered with my life.  The reason?  I take them as prescribed and am under a physician's care.  Unless I have another surgery, I will probably continue to take these drugs.  They are not very strong and I TAKE THEM AS PRESCRIBED.  The reason that pain meds get such a terrible rep is that people take two, three, four times the amount prescribed.  They take them to get high.  These women....I'm sorry, but these women are immature and irresponsible beyond reason.  It's hard to know what they were like before but responsible people don't take drugs and kill people -- people who are high on drugs kill people.  If you have a headache, do you take 10 aspirin?  No, you could really hurt yourself that way.  Every sad story of addiction begins with the addict deciding to up his dosage and continuing to up his/her dosage.  Maybe it's easier to blame the drug.
 
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February 7, 2008, 6:20 am PST

you know it!

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I agree with you.  I too have to take prescribed pain medication and if I didn't take it I couldn't function.  As it is I barely have a life, I cannot work, drive, etc because of my back injury.  However that doesn't mean I pop pills to "Get high".   This is what really annoys me when I see these people boohooing on tv about their addiction.  Yes it's sad, but no one prescribed the medications to begin with and then you go and take more then what would be prescribed anyway!!  Blaming the drugs is the easy way out.  But sorry these drugs also do many people a great service.  We take them to be able to deal with our pain, not to pass out or get stoned. 

 

As for the person who wrote that these drugs are handed out to easily I have to laugh.  I don't know what state you are living in but here in Florida if you go to a pain management doctor or clinic the last thing they do is prescribe these types of drugs.  It's when all else fails to help that they will start you on small doses of a narcotic to help you deal with your chronic pain.   You don't just walk in and say I'm hurting I need Oxycotin, or whatever.  The doctors will never go for that.  They are monitored so closely by the state that they will not give you anything until you've tried, physical therapy, bio-feedback, massage, facet injection, the list goes on and on.  The people that get these drugs without a legit issue have made it so difficult for those of us who have legit problems.  In a way it's a good thing in another it's a bad thing.  I don't know how many times I've gone to a new doctor and would get the raised eyebrow when I bring up the medications I take.  Automatically they profile you as "drug seeking" it's only after reading your complete medical history and getting to know you after a few months that they stop giving you that look.  It's very disheartening for real chronic pain patients.

 When I finally gave up trying to have doctors understand chronic pain and went to a pain management clinic, I was shocked at how well I was treated.  I expected to be treated like a drug seeker but the doctor was able to measure my pain through some sort of electronic reading.  He said, Yes, You do have 7 out of 10 pain on the scale.  I almost cried as for so long I felt like I was lying about my pain because doctors made me feel weird.  Physical pain causes emotional pain but physical pain can be treated by drugs.  Emotional pain can never be treated by drugs and that's what these twins are enduring.  I am shocked that it seems that they've never been worked up by a doctor or a psychiatrist.  It's obvious that something is going on with them but I'm frustrated with chronic pain sufferers being treated like emotionally pained drugseekers.  Pain is a very big part of my life and the drugs allow me to clean my house, take care of the yard, sit at a desk and work, etc. etc.  I really wish people would stop branding pain medication as the reason for all their problems.
 
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February 13, 2008, 6:36 am PST

Heidi, Go in Peace

   Heidi, you dear girl.  I'm so sorry for what happened to you.  But, without knowing your mother except for what she's presenting, I have to say that your mother is a narcissist who will always think of herself first.  Sweet girl, I hope you can find some peace with people who really true love you and really truly want to help you find a happy life.  I hope you can find an older woman who will do nice things for you and talk to you and share her wisdom with you.  Your mother cannot be a mother because she is so involved with her pain and her experience.  No mother can put herself first, no mother.  Sweet Heidi, love your children and your life and don't let this woman come near your children.  Peace.
 
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February 20, 2008, 6:48 am PST

Ditch the Loser

        This guy might be okay after a few years of intensive therapy and if he spent the rest of his life trying to make up to his wife.  But, the chance of that happening are slim to none.  My hunch is if Karen asks him to leave, she'll lose a lot of weight.  People like Rick drag women down and women always go to food for comfort.  Well, not always but usually.

He says "if kids weren't involved, he'd be gone?"  He should go.  His poison is infecting his family and they'd all be better off without him.  He is a very damaged person who doesn't have a clue about how deep his internal damage is.
 
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April 9, 2008, 6:28 am PDT

She is such a bully

     I think Leon's sort of cute myself.  What I would like is for him to lose a little weight to make himself feel better and then get out on the market.  Mrs. Abuser will find out how many women are looking for a cuddly teddy bear to make them happy.  I wouldn't want to sit next to her in a movie theatre, let alone be married to her.  Go Leon, go get your happiness outside of this marriage.  That's my opinion.


 

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