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January 25, 2008, 2:09 pm PST
01/25 Secrets in the Suburbs
Quote From: zimexladyPeople who swing have ultra low self esteem and turn to activities that lower that esteem even more.
Honestly you must not know anything about the swinging lifestyle. I think we actually have more self esteem as we are not afraid to do something we as a couple want to do! The key word here is WE as a COUPLE. WE chose to be in the lifestlye, and WE enjoy it. We do not hurt anyone with this choice! We love eachother and our hearts belong to one another. That will never change. Because we enjoy sharing ourselves sexually with others, does not change that! It means we are secure enough in our relationship to invite other's into our sexual activities! Tell me this, what is the difference between you or your spouse going to a store, purchasing an adult toy and using it ? Did that toy not make you have sexual gatification? Would that make it wrong because it was not your spouse who gave it to you? NO! For us, it is the same thing! We enjoy our sex life together very much. We fullfill eachother's needs and desires, but we do like to add to it! So, we chose to be in the lifestyle, and we have made some great friends along the way! Not all friends that we meet we hop into bed with. Honestly very few do we! It is more about the friendship and fun, and if we have that extra "spice" that night all the better! That by no means lowers my self esteem!
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