Messages By: bbbald

Here is the inherent danger of applying "morality" to "sexuality":

I'll bet everyone reading this can agree that Florence Nightingale was a wonderful and moral person. She saved a lot of lives, and cleaned a lot of bedpans...but what if she was a "swinger"? Would she suddenly be immoral?...what about all of her life's accomplishments? Those of us in the lifestyle are just as apt to be a terrific friend and neighbor to the rest of you.

If you *really* want to discuss morals, the most heinous, barbaric acts done throughout history have all been done in the name of what certain people believe to be the will of God. The crusades, the inquisition, the Kafir Qasim massacre, the holocaust, & 9/11 were all done in the name of religion, and because people were convinced thay were performing a service to God. The one comonality in all religion is that it views sex and sexuality as "immoral".

For those of you who find this lifestyle reprehensible, please keep in mind that no one is forcing it on you. It is bigoted, self-righteous, and indignatious to tell others how they should beleive in God, what they can and cannot do in their bedroom...and most importantly...when someone attempts to apply their morals on others.

If this lifestyle is not for you...great....good luck...I mean that. But physical monogamy is not the *only* path to a successful marriage.

People who swing have ultra low self esteem and turn to activities that lower that esteem even more.