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January 25, 2008, 8:40 pm PST
01/25 Secrets in the Suburbs
Quote From: sunmoonindianThis situation happened to unfold itself in our "family". Thankfully she divorced herself from the lying, cheating, sick man and let him spiral out of control by himself. But comes the point of all the chaos being brought into the home amongst the children. How do you explain the lifestyle to the children and also justify the expenses taken away from the family. It seems so selfish when you are a parent to put someone else through this, when they didn't ask for this shame of your lifestyle choices. Just how deep persay is your fixation with this "lifestyle" willing to go? Online advertising, group chat rooms, random dates out of personal ads... are you willing to be busted by an undercover agent? This fool did and that is how his life became aparent to his new bride/new mother and family who never saw the signs of his addictions. Is this really a personality disorder or are you just fulfulling some deeper need within your self? I believe that if a couple has the intamacy that they need in their relationship that they wouldn't have to go outside looking for other partners. I think that this is what happens when sex becomes about the act itself rather than the love and and just plain joy of being together as one.
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