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January 28, 2008, 7:15 pm PST

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This situation happened to unfold itself in our "family". Thankfully she divorced herself from the lying, cheating, sick man and let him spiral out of control by himself. But comes the point of all the chaos being brought into the home amongst the children. How do you explain the lifestyle to the children and also justify the expenses taken away from the family. It seems so selfish when you are a parent to put someone else through this, when they didn't ask for this shame of your lifestyle choices. Just how deep persay is your fixation with this "lifestyle" willing to go? Online advertising, group chat rooms, random dates out of personal ads... are you willing to be busted by an undercover agent? This fool did and that is how his life became aparent to his new bride/new mother and family who never saw the signs of his addictions. Is this really a personality disorder or are you just fulfulling some deeper need within your self?

Hi you wanted to know how people live this lifestyle when they have Children well let me tell you I am a swinger i am happly married and my hubby and i do this while the children are not around either we will go to the others home or we do it while the children are at a sleep over maybe you should look into to it instead of judging there is thought

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January 28, 2008, 7:20 pm PST

01/25 Secrets in the Suburbs

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It was a Halloween theme party. Unlike a lot of vanilla people us swingers dont just sit on the coach we are constantly going to themed parties almost every month. To be honest most times we never even have sex with others it just a lot of fun and if something happens then so be it but its not a requirement for most of us.

I agree. I have met alot of people in this lifestyle it is not all about sex it is about having fun with yourself and your spouse and others that in this lifestyle and not fell judged about how you feel. we have been doing this for about 2 years and have been together for 6 1/2 years it spices up the relationship. if you do not trust your spouse 100% then this is not for you. and you dont always have to be with another couple it could be with a single women and man.

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January 28, 2008, 7:27 pm PST

01/25 Secrets in the Suburbs

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This is so true, that is how 90% of the peopel start in the lifestyle. Being honest with yourself is the hardest part.

i am bi and the hubby loves it it spices up the sex life

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January 28, 2008, 7:39 pm PST

01/25 Secrets in the Suburbs

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What happened to you is absolutely horrible! I can't imagine how any parent could do things like that. I am so sorry for you and I hope you are finding ways to find your own individual self and move forward eventhough I can't imagine that would be an easy road at all.

I agree that was horrable. My husband and i are swingers and we have a 11 year old we would never dream about telling him about our lifestyle. this is a private matter. but although we are swingers doesnt mean that that is all we think about. we do not allow many couple to join us we hhave a few that we have become friends with. but we do not just have sex. we also go to partys or just hang out. one of our dear friends that we have done this with has kids 2 of them are around my sons age and they are best friends. we are like a family if one of them is have a bithday as my son did we invite them to the party. nothing is said or done around these children. we act like a family who cares. i am sick of hearing about how everyone think that this lifestyle is bad for a marriage. i am not forse into this. my hubby and i talked about it because i was thinking about being with another women. we have done this and i still love being with . other women. and it excites him very much. we have been together for almost 7 years. and are still very much in love. i am very sorry that you had to learn this as a child. but please do not judge us. we do not just have intercourse.

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