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March 6, 2008, 8:01 pm PST

aware of offenders signs

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It's very scary to know how many sex offenders live next to you!  There are about 170 in the 10 mile radius from where I live (I need to move).  There's about 20 that live half a mile away!  It's a shocking reality check, thats for sure.

 

You can find out the # of sex offenders that live in your area, their names, addresses and pictures from the the family watchdog site:

 

http://www.familywatchdog.us/

 

What to do when the jails are so overcrowded that these sociopaths are free?

IN MY MIND I BELIEVE THAT IT SHOULD BE MADE AWARE TO ALL THAT THERE IS AN OFFENDER IN ALL DWELLINGS!!! THERE SHOULD BE A COLORED SIGN ON THE MAILBOX OR ON THE HOUSE SIGNIFYING A SEX OFFENDER OF ANY TYPE.WE NEED TO COME UP WITH A SYMBOL AND MAKE IT LAW TO BE POSTED AT ALL OF THESE"-------------"RESIDENTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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March 6, 2008, 8:34 pm PST

DIDNT KNOW THE AGE "YEAH RIGHT"

Quote From: tina3940

My son is a immature 21 year old that has been trying to have a normal relationship with girls 18 and over. He is a sweet kid and I call him kid because that is what he is like, a kid. Well, this past week we have been going through a tough time as he was with a girl that claimed she was 18 and looked that age. Come to find out she was 15. My son didn't know her very long to find out the truth about her.  We are finding out that this girl has accused others of the same thing she has accused my son of. I assure you my son is not dangerous and could possible have to register as a sex offender.  I think before someone jumps to a conclusion that all people that are registered sex offenders are dangerous criminals, maybe you should actually find out what their story is and possibly they were also accused of something they actually didn't do. I am all for keeping the creeps and perverts away from our children but there are some out there that just got a bad rap. What about these young girls that get mad because the guy figured out their story or just decided the relationship wasn't working. They can make up anything and ruin a young mans life.  As this girl has done to my son.

TWENTY EIGHT YEARS AGO I NEW HOW OLD THEY WERE AND IF I DIDNT I WAS BROUGHT UP TO KNOW NOT TOO MESS AROUND.ILL BET HER ID SAID HER AGE AND IF IT COULD NOT BE   PRODUCED THEN BACK UP.I HONESTLY BELIEVE THAT THE MOM GETS ALL THE CREDIT FOR HER CHILDREN "GOOD AND BAD" IM TOLD THAT ITS ALL IN THE UPBRINGING AND I REALLY DONT AGREE TOTALY BUT IT SURE IS 80% OF IT.WE NEED TO BE EXPLICIT WITH OUR CHILDREN ON ALL FACETS OF LIFE TO MAKE SURE THAT THEY ARE KEPT SAFE AND HEALTHY.SO IF THIS HAPPENED TO MY CHILDREN I WOULD HAVE TO TAKE SOME OF THE BLAME BECAUSE I WASNT WATCHING,TEACHING AND OR DISAPLINING ENOUGH.IN OUR MINDS AS WE GROW UP IN ANY SITUATION WE ALL THINK ABOUT WHAT IS RIGHT AND WRONG AND THEN WE ACT.THERE IS NOBODY THAT IS SO INOCENT AND UNKNOWING AT 21 OR THERE IS SOMETHING ELSE WRONG HERE.ITS MY MOMS FAULT THAT I AM ME.IVE BEEN TOLD BY MANY PEOPLE THAT SHE IS TO BLAME FOR ME MAKING DECISIONS THAT HAVE MADE MY LIFE WHAT IT IS,THANK GOD FOR MY MOM,SHE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR MY ACCOMPLISHMENTS IN LIFE AND HOW I CONDUCT MY LIFE.
 
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March 6, 2008, 9:12 pm PST

IF A COP SEEN YOU SO COULD HAVE A CHILD

Quote From: shawnb123

I did nothing against a child, I was charged with indecent exposier and the state made me register for the rest of my life. Now, I have a seven month old daughter, I take very good care of her. I'm very upset that I have to register as a sex offender and think the law for my case should be looked at. I didn't rape anyone, I never offended anyone, except for the police officer that saw me without any clothes on! So I guess I have to suffer just like all the other sex offenders out there. I don't agree with my lifetime conviction.

WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!YOU DID NOTHING WRONG AND SHOULDNT BE LABELED.WHY IN YOUR MIND DID YOU DO NOTHING WRONG.

I WAS TEN DELIVERING NEWSPAPERS TO MAKE MY SAVINGS,AND AS I PUT A PAPER IN THE DOOR I WAS WALKING AWAY WHEN I HEARD A TAP ON THE WINDOW,THERE STOOD A MAN WITH A BEARD TOTALY NAKED LOOKING AT ME.I WENT STRAIGHT TO THE POLICE AND TOLD THEM.THEY BROUGHT ME UP THERE AND THE MAN CALLED ME A LIAR AND NOTHING COULD BE DONE ABOUT IT EXCEPT HE DID NOT GET THE PAPER ANYMORE,ARE YOU MISSING YOUR NEWSPAPER?WELL I AM NOW 42 AND THIS IMAGE HAS NEVER LEFT MY MIND.IT HAS EFFECTED ME ALL MY LIFE BUT AS MY MOM TAUGHT ME THIS IS NOT MY FAULT AND TO BE VERY AWARE OF THESE PEOPLE,THEY ARE SICK AND HAVE A DISEASE.IVE SENSE LEARNED THAT IT IS A DISEASE AND BELIEVE IT TO BE AN INCURABLE ONE,SO KEEP YOUR CLOTHES ON YOU NEVER KNOW WHOS LOOKING AND HOW THAT MIGHT EFFECT THEM.THE WAY YOUR TALKING YOUR STILL SICK"GET SOME HELP"BUT BE AWARE YOU WILL NEVER BE HEALED.GO FIND THAT ISLAND

 
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March 6, 2008, 9:30 pm PST

PLANT A SEED AND A TREE GROWS

Quote From: dallasdiva

I agree..I hope Dr. Phil will sort out some of the mis-understandings about all of this...There are many levels of SO's and the level ones should not be lumped in with the level 3's...some of these people should never even have these tags..
IT MIGHT START AS A SMALL OFFENSE BUT WHERE DOES THIS LEAD.THEY EVOLVE TO THE NEXT LEVEL SO LETS KEEP A GOOD EYE THE REST OF THIER LIFE TO MAKE SURE THIS PROCESS DOES NOT HAPPEN.IF YOU CARE ABOUT HIM,KEEP HIM CLOSE ENOUGH THE REST OF HIS LIFE SO NOBODY CAN BLAME HIM,AND HE WILL NOT GET TO THE NEXT LEVEL AND BECOME THE TREE!
 

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