Messages By: getrealtime

I was blind for a long time, two years ago I would of been one of the people passing the hat, not no more. for me to give now I have to know that the person in need is a person who is giving their all to help themself first. then I will help. To make a long story short, I had to get a job because of the soft housing market , we had two house payment (not complaining it was of our own making) so I took a 3rd. shift job at a local store, it opened my eyes wided to the system.The 18 year old girls in there with their boyfriend and kids in tow with a 500 doller gov. card to buy their food with, and complaining how they hate shopping, so many time i wish i could say, (you should try it on your own dime then you will have the right to complain)

I try to stay away from the hat now unless i truely see need, I put up with the good doers asking why i didn't give, I rather suffer the whispers of  the good doers then give to those who won't help themselfs.

I was so glad Dr. Phil didn't give Dan any monies. A doller to Dan today will insure the suffering of his family tomorro. I'm sure the good doers out there have passed the hat and Dan has quickly taken it and the suffering will continue.

Why didn' t Dr. Phil help Dan? Because to give Dan a dollar today will insure the suffering of Dans family tomorrow. Dan hasn't worked at a real job sence 1988, he has tried every get rich scam there is and has bled family members of their hard worked money. Dan was there for another hand out.

Dan can take a different road, but he should build the road himself, anything of worth is worth working for. A dream is only as strong as the dreamer. All the sayings we have didn't come from people with their hands out , they are willing to work to make them come true, two jobs one to take care of his family another to go to his dream. Dan has suffered nothing, he does not do his the best for his family, if he did they would not need another handout and Dan would be working toward that american dream.

put yourself together, grab your shoes and walk into a new life.you can't heal when someone keeps cutting you, don't give it one more year, respect is gone, and if respect is gone so is friendship.

We all know who have been married over 15 years when the friendship is gone there is nothing to get you over the hill and  back in love again. good luck

I had a friend who was just like Rochelle, she was the money maker, a very hard worker, and she had a hubby just like Rochelle's. My friend also knew how to bait his hook too! Do this do that and SHE WOULD LET HIM GO PLAY. Fish , hunt, whatever, to us their friends it was funny and sad. Funny because he did what she said, sad because he knew we laughed at him for doing it.

To make very long story short, he started holding sex from her, this upset her, but of course it was not her fault, it was his. so my hubby played a song for one night we where playing cards, the name was

(who wants to kiss the lips that has been chewing my ass all day) we all laughed, her husband laughed the hardest with a AMEN, she sent him home, he left for a week, came back, head down, He didn't want to work that hard for a living, so he does as she says, a kepted man, willing to take what she is willing to give. I know not one man on the block who likes her. They like him, but do not respect him.

Rochelle we don't want your boy, we like are MEN.

NO MONEY, JOHN WON'T APLY WAVE MORE CASH AND LITTLE RESPECT  HE MIGHT THINK ABOUT IT

HE'S A KEPT MAN

    Dr. Phil has already talked to this man and knows he is a kept man, he is willing to sell his pride, and if it was a women, the same would aply. John is willing to sell himself

Rochelle maybe you shouldn't be so quick to put your man on the the block, to challenge other women to aply,there are women out there who have more money and who are way younger then you, who might want your boy-toy, you might say if they can get him, they can have him, but if he is up for sale and someone buys him, that leaves you looking for a new boy toy, there is not many MEN out there that would put up with you. Think before you leap, you might have to get your own cup of coffee if he finds another women who is willing  to buy his pride,and his respect of himself. you bought it ,why can't someone else.