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April 1, 2008, 8:25 pm PDT

I'm so sorry..........

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     I am soo sorry about your loss!! I am an EMT and we hear about this Superbug all the time and we are always taking the steps to make sure everything is clean and disinfected! It is scary for all of us to know this bug is getting worse out there! I have a 14yr old, an 8yr old and a 17mo old and this scares the crud right out of me to think about my oldest one will be out there playing football and other sports having the chance of being in contact with this Superbug. Well I will keep you and your family in our prayers! I guess I am the kind of person that I would sue them because I feel that they should have done more, more tests to see if it was still in his body. I know you have an 11yr old to consider, but you also have to have means to take care of him. If this happened to your husband at their mistake, you didnt ask for that, you have to think of you and your son! I know what has been done has been done, but this is something that will live with you forever and I think hospitals, doctors, nurses, ect should take this sooo much more seriously than they are, because of them not doing so, they are costing people their lives! Well I wish you the best of luck with all of this no matter what you decide to do! I have a company that invests in people who have lawsuits-it helps them to pay their bills,ect while they await their trial-its something to consider-if your interested in helping to get your bills and your living expenses while you fight this let me know, and even if you need an attorney! Oh i guess u would need my email addy too: k2tall77@hotmail.com  . I wish you and your family alot of luck, and give you all prayers too! Take Care!
What an unsettling story. My husband had a hip replaced in August about 2 years ago and was just recovering from mrsa before it was done. Due to some heart problems that he has he was very lucky to survive this awful bug. I was disabled by a surgeon and didn't sue but now I wish that I had. We are in financial ruin and I will suffer forever from what she has done to me. If you decide to sue look for a large firm who can afford to hire experts and do it on a contingency basis. It's always on a contingency basis but finding an attorney who will take the case may be hard. It's worth pursuing. The hospitals and even more the doctors need to take responsibility for their gross negligence. It at the very least needs to be on their record. I wish you the very best and am very sorry for your loss. Sincerely, jewels
 
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April 1, 2008, 10:55 pm PDT

Bird flu........

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Bird Flu will be the next care in America, I'm prepared, most folks are not prepared.
This really scares me! We've already been through mrsa so I'm not really panicked about it but I am scared about the bird flu because I know that this is a real possibility. If not bird flu then it will be some other form of virus that will cause a pandemic. I assume that you watch the same programs on TV like I do. It could be something as simple as a new strain of flu. There are a lot of really scary things out there. The drug makers and the governments of all countries don't want to put out the money to produce enough anti-viral medication in case of a pandemic which they pretty much know is going to happen so what the heck are we supposed to do? We try to stay prepared for disasters but some things are just going to be too big. You say that you are prepared, I would truly like to know what you mean. What have you done? A true pandemic is going to bring all commerce to a screeching halt across the world, most medication is manufactured in other countries, food supplies will dwindle, nobody will be working or have money to pay for their utilities if they are even still working. I'm on serious pain meds and couldn't live without them, the pain is way too severe (I'm disabled) and have a few other health problems and my husband is diabetic and has heart problems. What do we do when we can no longer get prescriptions? I'm truly frightened over this very real possibility. I would appreciate any feedback and suggestions. Thank you, Jewels
 
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April 2, 2008, 6:01 pm PDT

"I don't understand"

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That is simply not how some people communicate...and that is ok.
What did you mean by that quote? Please explain.
 
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April 2, 2008, 6:32 pm PDT

Organic just isn't practical.........

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What the workers, often from countries good hygiene isn't practiced, do while picking produce or processing chickens, make a good case against illegal immigration. Buying organic products from local farms could reduce germs. Other than those from idiots sneezing on them in the produce aisle. That's just trashy.
I personally like the idea of organic fruits and vegetables but it isn't practical to think that the farmers could feed the world growing their produce that way. The crops have to be mass produced or the world would go hungry. And field workers? Well, I'm certainly not crazy about the idea of that either but there is a practical side to it also. First I want to say that they come over here and get free medical, use other family members SSN's and a bunch of other stuff like that which takes a toll on the USA's finances but think about it. Who will work the fields if they don't? That is awful, back breaking, hot work. It is in fact the lowest form of employment in this country. I happen to know quite a bit about this subject because my husband is the #1 Supervisor for a produce company. He has worked in produce management all of his life and he is 59 years old. We've been married for over 20 years. He supervises the shipping, he walks the fields, he does just about everything but sell the stuff and pick it of course. I also worked with someone who was born in Mexico and she told me that she picked produce for awhile and it is so hard that she would never do that again.  I don't understand why the illegal aliens don't just get a green card to work here legally. That baffles me. And about the trashy sneezing, yes that's pretty gross but I think the most important thing everyone can do to stop so many of the awful germs being passed such as e-coli is to wash their hands after using the bathroom. Here we are in the year 2008 and after all of the programs on TV like 60 minutes, etc, and the nightly news reporting this, how come there are so many people that are still not getting it?!!!!!! I don't get it!!!!! That is just so gross and such a simple thing to do. Back when I worked I would see women that I worked with use the bathroom, come out of the stall, groom their hair and prance right out the door. Lipstick yes, hands no. Why is this so hard to do?
 
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April 2, 2008, 6:41 pm PDT

How did you do that?

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  USE BLEACH

THAT IS BETTER THAN ISOPROPYL ALCOHOL........

  AND USE IT EVERY DAY.

BLEACH BLEACH BLEACH

 

 

HAVE A GOOD DAY

                                                                         Cat 2  Kitty 6

First of all I agree with the bleach idea. I think that will be a more efficient cleanser and anti-bacterial. What I want to know is how you put the kitty cat in your quote? Let me know please. Jewels
 
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April 2, 2008, 6:54 pm PDT

The Salesman are another story!

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There are been several shows regarding health issues.... MRSA now being the second. Pharmaceutical companies are working on drugs to treat MRSA however he doesn't say so....yet he has a Doctor on who hawks Lysol! Dr Phil, please be more responsible and give all the information!!! All Pharmaceutical companies are not bad...some really do care about what they do. I don't know of one person who works for one who thinks "I wonder how much money this could make for the company". What they think is "How many people can be helped by the medication that I'm helping to develop."
While I applaud the pharmaceutical companies who are working to make this a better world in which to live the salesmen are a whole different story. They certainly think about 'how much money will this drug make for me?" and how many cruises they will get out of it and kickbacks, etc. They may look respectable but they aren't, at least most of them anyway. I do think that the pharm companies and the government should work together to produce enough anti-viral medication for the next pandemic that is known to be on it's way. It's horrible that no one wants to step up to the plate and take responsibility for this.
 
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April 2, 2008, 7:37 pm PDT

Good point

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Oh, yea I forgot to sayanother place we see a lot is in the pubic area..........the ones that have been shaved and waxed. Anytime you interrupt the integrity of the skin you are inviting into your body what ever bacteria is in the neighborhood.

 

foam on!

People tend to forget that there is an actual reason for the way our bodies are made. Let's not forget about nose hair too. It's fine to keep it trimmed so it's not hanging down your face but don't go too far, it's your first line of defense. And what you mentioned above, the Brazilian craze, I believe in keeping trimmed but there is an actual purpose for your natural state, it is in fact another barrier against the germs that are hoping to invade in anyway they can. I read magazine polls where young men are asked about the Brazilian compared to a woman's normal body. It's hard to figure out the acceptable terms to use while I'm writing this, I'm not embarrassed but I don't want to be kicked off of the sight either. Anyway, the men who are asked about this think it is gross for a woman to have ANY "thing" down there. They have watched too many porn movies and seen too many young girls who are into this to realize that there is nothing wrong with a woman being natural. I find this sad and a little sick. A grown woman is supposed to be that way, otherwise we resemble little girls who have yet to go through puberty. A grown woman is beautiful and todays standards of beauty are getting so far away from normal.  Men expect women to have that large flat space between their breast where normal cleavage should be. I'm glad I'm not 20 anymore!
 
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April 2, 2008, 7:46 pm PDT

Patients demand them!

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After this show I will be even more vigilant than I am with my handwashing/"foaming". I have a good knowledge of MRSA but hearing about the child that died made me cry.

 

In the ER I see patients EVERY day that come in with "spider bites" that are infected. Many of these people are touching them while describing their problem. I ask them if they have been "messing with" the wounds and most say yes. Many have been trying to incise/drain at home with needles and who know what. So their hands with the bacteria are who knows where in the community. I am frequently told the whole family has it and they don't know why...........duh! These same people are coming in and visiting people in the hospital.

 

Hospital acquired MRSA is rampant as you all know now. At our hospital anyone that has it has their chart "tagged". Next time they are admitted they go into isolation until they have three (I think) clear swabs from their nose, axilla and groin. It is hard on the families, especially to have to gown up to visit their loved ones, especially the elderly.

 

We have foam containers outside all of the rooms in our ER. When a patient comes into me with  an abscess the first thing I do is give them some foam for their hands and some for me (a little foaming party) before I put my hands or equipment on them. They are sitting in the waiting room, their infected kids running around touching everything; you get the picture.

 

A lot of the patients we see with Community Acquired MRSA are the uninsured; they of course can't see a primary doctor and are usually pretty bad when they come to us because of the cost. So they have been out spreading it for quite a while., living in cramped quarters, many are hygiene challenged. I have said for 30 years that there should be "hygiene stamps" (like food stamps) That is one of the last thing people with little money can purchase.

 

 

 

Here is a question for you..................in studies of handwashing in the hospitals who is the worst about washing their hands between patients and procedures?  Surprise, surprise it is the Physicians. They go from patient to patient, carrying charts, touching the patients.

 

If you are in the hospital ask your nurse or Dr. ......did you foam or wash your hands before coming in to see me? Don't be embarrassed...just do it. Your life may depend on it. I might even refuse anyone's touch if they were not wearing gloves!!

 

All that school cleaning is impressive but it only lasts until the next person comes by and leaves more bacteria on the clean area. I guess we need time released cleaning agents.

 

I must say I was disappointed to see Dr. Sears palpating that child's wound with an ungloved hand-yuk. I am guessing (hoping) it was healed but it was still creepy to see.

 

We human beings have done this to ourselves by our demands for antibiotics for every sniffle and not finishing the ones prescribed.

 

Foam out people!

 

 

Every time someone gets a cold or the flu they see a doctor and expect antibiotics. Don't we all know by now that antibiotics do not cure virus's? But if the doctor refuses the patient thinks the doctor isn't doing anything for them. Instead of drugs they need education about the difference's between bacteria and a virus. Yes, we did do this to ourselves, not me exactly because I have known this for years and only take antibiotics when truly needed, so we have only ourselves to blame. Wash hands!!!!!!!!!!! with soap!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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April 9, 2008, 12:37 pm PDT

Mr Bowl Full Of Jello!!!!!!!!!!!!

This wife needs to leave NOW!!!!!!!!! If he loved her at all he wouldn't be abusive over her weight. Over 20 years people change, they gain weight, get wrinkles, go bald, etc.. If we left our spouses or belittled them over everything that changed the divorce rate would be 100%. I put on some weight when I became disabled and my Husband loves me more than ever before. Yes, I would love to lose it but if I tried my husband would encourage me and probably do it with me, not put me down. I suppose after 20 years of marriage that some things have changed with my husbands appearance but to be completely honest I don't see it. He still turns me on like crazy. I desire him more now than the first year we were married and we kept things pretty busy back then. He can't keep his hands off of me. I'm not bragging here, I'm talking about true love. The two of us may have changed over the years but we don't see it, we just love and desire each other more every day. That poor woman isn't loved by her husband and she needs to leave him and find someone who will love her for who she is, not what she looks like. Life is WAY too short to live like that!!!!!!! 
 
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April 9, 2008, 1:31 pm PDT

People are so Cruel!

I really can't understand where people get off putting another person , especially a loved one, down because of a weight problem. What I REALLY can't understand is when these verbal abusers are exceedingly fat themselves! Where do they get off putting down their mate, father, etc. for being fat when they themselves are just as fat or more so? Haven't they ever heard "People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones"?! It sickens me! These people should be stripped nude and put in a glass booth in a public place for everyone to see and to comment on. I wonder how they would feel then. They have no class, no empathy, no compassion, are heartless, and are in bad need of a wake up call. Were they raised like this? Does this make their parents proud? I've said this before, life is too short to live like that. Leave, get out, find someone who will love you for who you are and not what you look like because all of us change over time. Why do you think it's called "the bloom of youth"? Talk about the pot calling the kettle black, these people need to find new pots who will love them with the purity they deserve.
 

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