Messages By: wardjunefan

This is straight up discusting and EVIL!!  I'm sick to death of people using religion and God to justify their nasty lives! This world that these people live in has nothing to do with God! Shame on them all! I pray for those poor children and young mothers. This just breaks my heart. I try not to judge and usually say well, it's between them and God, but I just can't stay quiet about this disturbing behavior and way of life. God help those kids!!

Always a preditor!!  This man seems to be proud of himself for his discusting actions!! I don't believe one word that comes out of that nasty mouth of his!  I won't say what  I think should be done with people like him because that is up to god, but that doesn't make me feel any less angry. I also blame his wife just as much for not just staying with the monster, but for not protecting her child. There is NO EXCUSE for not protecting your child!! And I wish Dr. Phil would wipe that smile off his face!! I know the test results are not back yet, but HE DID IT!! I know it!!  Once a monster, always a monster!! I was molested too, but thank god not by a family member. But, it still cuts as deep and it can ruin your life!! If I could only confront my molester, all the security staff in the world would never be able to hold me back! Good luck on judgement day you miserable SOB! My prayers go out to this poor woman and her son.

Honestly, It's funny how people come up with new words to replace what they really mean. Hording is just another example. Where I come from, this behavior is straight up being a slob and that's being nice!! There is no reason for having kids and animals live in that filth! After tuning in, I felt so filthy that I had to scrub up in the shower! These kids and animals should be taken away! We all have been through some traumas in our lives and we don't resort to this. I know if I were one of her kids, there would have been no way I'd show my face on national TV talking about my very nasty and unstable living conditions! Those poor kids! Reading some of your posts, I see that there are some people defending this and that is your right, but just remember that if you start in on me about being too harsh.

There are very few people who exist with the unisex problem and I can then and ONLY then have some compassion because its through no fault of their own.

This is unacceptable!! It seems from what I heard on today's show that this man was not given a fair chance to gain custody of his baby girl. Dr. Phil, I just loved it when you asked that attorney how she expected this man to know about this law when she didn't. You never let me down!! After listening to both sides, I feel that there was a nasty break up and Ester's daddy is pulling the strings and wagging the dog's tail. I see nothing but cold people on that side. Brice and his mother seem genuine and at least he admits to his mistakes unlike the holier than thou family who took his rights away. Now, like you Dr. Phil, I'm not saying that I feel that Brice is fit to raise this baby, but he should have had the chance to prove himself. I'm usually a pretty good judge of character and I gotta tell you that as the show went on, I found myself not believing Ester's family. It wasn't so much what they said, but how they said it and the coldness about them. This is a HUGE example of why we need CLEAR LAWS!! There is already too much underhanded and evil doings in our system to add yet another sneaky law that preys upon fathers who deserve to be in their children's lives. Dr. Phil, maybe now that you have brought this out, more people will check to see if there is such a law in their state. My prayers go out to all involved and most of all, this baby. I also pray that there will be a fair and objective judge to preside over the appeal.

If I were Kendra, I'd move my family thousands of miles away from this loon of a mother! The way she acts, I'm suprised that Kendra seems sane. To have Dr. Phil squirm around like that, you can't get scarier ! I think he put it just right about her being from the mafia. Move over Tony Saprano, you have met your match!

Kendra and Adam, please stay safe at all costs, you are doing the right thing by keeping your precious baby away from this "mother", I use that term very loosly! I've seen the best of control freaks, but this is beyond controlling, this is dangerous. God Bless you all!

Watching today's show begs the question, does anyone remember good old fashioned charm? Honest to God, Paul and John are discusting! The only difference between the two is that John is more mean spirited with his arrogance. I wouldn't give either of them a second look if I were single. These two are poster children for why we need to bring back the days when a man knew how to romance a woman without expecting her to become another notch on his belt!  I swear, its times like this when I feel I'm from another planet. Not to wish ill on anyone, but acting as these two clowns do is only asking for trouble, not to mention DISEASES!!

Boy! Reading your post makes me wonder if we have the same step mother! Yikes! My heart goes out to you because I know how you feel when it comes to daddy picking another woman over his own flesh and blood. Now, my father and mother were actually going through a divorce before he got involved with this wife, but the affects are just as deep. My parents divorced because my dad was controling and abusive to the point where he once told me and my sister that we would become orphans if my mother wouldn't take him back and that was AFTER he got involved with this so-called woman! My mom left him for the final time in Oct. of 1986 (I was 14) and he moved this woman and her 3 kids in our home that we grew up in about 2 months later! The divorce was final in January of 1988 (ironically on their would be 18th wedding anniversary) and he and the "step-monster" was married the very next month.  Just as your step-mother, she has done everything in her power to ruin any kind of effort we made to have a relationship. He put us through hell, and when I became an adult and spent two years out of his life, he was in an accident. It changed him and then I decided that I wanted to try to get to know my father and I have since forgiven him, BUT our relationship is on my terms only! I chose this because I still have lasting scars and now that I'm almost 36 yrs. old, I still have nightmares. The man does call me every week , but I live almost two hrs. away from him and he seems to think the road goes only one way and expects me to do the traveling to see him. That is when I told him that I will see him on my terms and when my schedule allows or even WHEN I choose to see him and that I didn't owe him anything and that I have forgiven him NOT FOR HIM,BUT FOR MY PIECE OF MIND! I have not however forgiven his wife because she has not changed or apologized for all her cruelty and she and her kids have come in and turned our lives upside down and took over our home. I call them THE INTRUDERS! Because that's what they are. My father did apologize and he finally owned what he did all those years and including allowing that wife of his to dictate to him what was going to be. I also see that he is getting alot of what he dished out back because she is clearly the controling one, she has put him in debt, he has been ill for the past few years and it has hurt his relationships with family members. If you feel you want some support with someone who can relate, I'd be happy to be a sounding board. Just remember, it may hurt, but your father is the one missing out, not you and your kids. God Bless!

Why does this woman get to be the one to choose if and when this marriage is over? SHE'S THE ONE SCREWING AROUND!! He needs to man up and take those kids from her!! Smoking pot with her lover is UNACCEPTABLE!! She has evidently chosen this moron over her own kids and any woman that does that to her kids doesn't deserve to have them! I don't care what he has done, you leave if you are not happy, not cheat! Its obvious to me its about sex, which makes it even more dispicable.