For some reason this show made me uncomfortable. I don't understand why it's not easy for me to say "if you're happy & in love so be it," because that's how I feel about a lot of issues. I'm really not okay with the idea at all and I think this is why. My parents are still married and are exactly the same age. I plan on getting married and having kids in the next few years and it would be really upsetting to me if one of my parents were significantly older than the other making it impossible for one of them to enjoy their grandchildren as much as the other one due to their age. As my children got a little older it would be unfortunate if the one significantly older died before they got to see their grandchildren grow up. This would also result in the younger one living several years as a widow. I also can't help but think of it this way.... if you are dating someone 20 years younger than you...... you were 20 when they were a baby.... hmm weird. There's "lots of fish in the sea"... why not find someone close in age that you can experience a lot of the same things for the first time together? Or if not that at least you'll be able to connect based off of your life experiences so far. These "older" women talk about guys their own age not being able to "get it up" and stuck in their ways. I feel that if you're in "love" it should be easy to compromise with the differences with a desire to satisfy your partner. The "younger" guys say that the older women are a lot more experienced in bed. Personally if I were a younger guy I would probably rather see a really sexy girl my own age than a wrinkly older woman that may have more experience. Hello, just get a book on kama sutra. Either way, I feel like if you love someone then how "good" the sex is shouldn't matter... it should be just as special no matter what.
