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August 1, 2008, 4:48 pm PDT

She was my step daughter too, but now she's my daughter

Quote From: janetrocks

Our legal curfew is 12 pm.  That is when she is supposed to be in.  I was trying to give her freedom by not checking with parents that she would be at that house since she will be 18 in 2 months.  I was trying to do baby steps with her and having her responsible for being where she said she would be. 

 

Yes, we bought the car and pay the cell bill.  I never had things growing up and I want my kids to have access.  I felt like if I gave them the things they need to succeed, they would go far in life.  example:  I thought if they had a car, they could go to work and a cell was for her protection so she could call.  All of this has backfired.   We have 5 girls and the first three this thinking has not been good with them.  I am unsure how we will handle the last 2.  This daughter that got in trouble is my step-daughter, so I am not only fighting her to realize the crowd she is with will put her in harm I am also fighting her mother who thinks the boy is great and encourages them to stay together.

I didn't explain all the details about her being my step daughter too, and that her mom and dad didn't agree about anything, so she was without boundaries.

Please  work with her dad in counseling to learn how to help this girl. You can't do anything about her mom.

Trust me on this. I had no idea how to be a step mom. Without professional help our daughter would have hurt herself severely.
 
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August 7, 2008, 5:12 pm PDT

Good For You

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Hi

 

I'm a 30 year old man with Cerebral Palsy from Timmins Ontario Canada. I cannot talk or walk

 

When I was 4 months old, the doctor told my mom I would be in a play pen all my  life wow was he wrong!!!!!!

 

I

 

  • Graduated high school in honors, I never stepped foot  in a special class
  • I took marketing in college
  • took 2 years of web design
  • opened my own Web Design business,
  • Am publishing my own disability magazine in my city
  • I love working.
  • Am a social bug

 If any one wants to speak with me my e-mail is caube1977@personea.ca

 

Regards

 

Life's what YOU MAKE OF IT

Obviously there's nothing wrong with your intelligence.

I admire your spirit for survival, and can relate to it.

I continue to be amazed at the array of challenges presented to humans during  this life on Earth.
 
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August 7, 2008, 5:21 pm PDT

He Was Fantastic!

Quote From: pammy77boo

I just wanted to comment on Wednesdays show, "William Joseph" was SUPERB!!!

I am ever thankful that someone somewhere had enough faith in him tohelp him get to where he is!!!

Beautiful Music!!

I am going right out to buy his cd!!!

Thank you Dr. Phil!!!

His music was exquisite.

I had to stop everything and listen.

Thank you Dr. Phil for nurturing this wonderful talent.
 
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September 5, 2008, 4:44 pm PDT

What a Dope!

Are you kidding me! Even after the lawyer tells her she's in serious jeopardy, she says it all goes back to her husband. Pretending to be naive won't help her if one of these kids kills himself or others. She seems to be punishing her husband for drinking, by allowing her children to drink. To waste the time of the police is ridiculous. Grow up woman!
 
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September 5, 2008, 5:18 pm PDT

She's a Child

Mom seems to be a child in a woman's body. Her voice even sounds like a child. She needs counseling to help her get passed whatever hurt her so much that she has not been able to grow up. She has great kids who seem to be more mature than she is.
 
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September 30, 2008, 5:13 pm PDT

Not True

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   I am tired of seeing the Goldmans. They once again are making the talk show circuit. To re-release the book because OJ is in trial, smells of money hungry to me.

I won't be watching your show this week when they are the guests.

The Goldmans have given all the money from the book to charity, so some good will come from the murder of their son and brother. I'm sure they will give away every penny they get from OJ. If what they are doing helps them heal, then I'm for it.
 
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October 7, 2008, 5:13 pm PDT

Forgive?

Quote From: wejohnson45

Let's first start with your statement ' you obviously don't have the capacity to feel enough love for a child to understand what this family has been put through'.. My response to that is first you don't know me, and yes I do have children, however I would know when enough is ENOUGH! evidently the Goldman's and you do not know what it means to FORGIVE! Like I said in my initial note, we should forgive but it is far harder to forget. No one expects them to forget what happened to RON, but they need to move on and get on with life, MONEY will not bring him back, REVENGE will not bring him back, WILL IT?

KARMA works in many ways..... I remember what my mother used to say.. be careful what you say about someone else it may happen to YOU!. Be careful of the grave you dig for someone else you could be digging your OWN!
Obviously it is you who does not understand forgiveness. When a person suffers the horrifying violence the Goldman family has experienced, they need to do what they can to heal. Forgiveness is a word that means nothing in this situation. It's good that your life has been safe enough that you don't get it.
 
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April 22, 2009, 4:47 pm PDT

Me Too

Dear Dr. Phil,

I was raped throughout my childhood by my mother. One of the hardest things I've had to deal with is that our society does not believe that a mother could rape her daughter.

Thank god my psychiatrist and psychologists knew better. After fifteen years of therapy I finally live in a happy, safe and loving home.

It hurts my heart to think of little Sandra. Having her little body exhumed to prove the truth of what happened to her is like raping her again.

I understand why people don't want to know that women rape children, but hiding our heads in the sand adds more pain to the victims.


 

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