Messages By: picalina

Bruce I am so delighted that you have posted this experience.  There are a lot of closed minds and you have noticed on this board.

If you read my postings I have been totally frustrated in trying to share my experiences.

I finally gave up.  Have not posted anything here a a long while.  Came over to see if the same bible thumpers were still running the board, and it was so refreshing to read your post.

Such a shame that they are cheating themselves out of many experiences with the higher self.

Glad to hear that you got some resolution about your daughter, and so sorry to hear that you lost your loved one.

God Bless,  Picalina

You are so right about saying what you mean, and doing what you say!

Like Dr. Phil said, discipline has to be unified, and consistent.  The problem I saw with all these parents is that they had never read a book from years ago, called  BIG YOU, LITTLE YOU....

It talks about the parent and child in all of us.  When these parents got into conflict with their children it was an issue of their child in them fighting with their own child.  Somehow the adult got suppressed.

If these parents would keep that image before them when they go to correct the child, I do believe that they would have more harmony in the household.

The child would then recognize that he is no longer fighting with the child, but the adult, and most likely change his or hers tactics.

I was please with the way the show turned out this evening, I think Dr. Phil finally got through.

I hope that when they get home they will remember all that they learned on the show.

Good luck parents.

You are so right about what the parents taught her.

I too came from a very strict Italian family,  where Father was king, and you were his property.

Many a day I would go to school with welts from a belting that he would give me almost on a daily bases.  To this day at sixty eight years old I still have emotional scares from the abuse.

It just so happened when I was growing up there were no laws against child abuse. Parents were allowed to hit their kids.

As an adult I have trouble with authority figures in the work place.  I freeze up with fear when I think I am going to be in trouble for something.  I may be called in the office for something very good, but I die a thousand deaths on the way there.  This is what my Father's legacy to me was.

I never remember him telling me something positive about myself or what I had done.  Whatever I was proud of and wanted to show him. he dismissed it as a waste of time.

My Mother was no help she was as fearful of him as we were.  So she was always very passive.

All that I have become today, has been gleaned from self help books, that I have read for years.

My self image is healthy, and I have peace in my life.

Housewife52,

Thank you for sharing your experiences.  Let me first ask you a question, when this voice from your Mother occurred, did you by chance get chills up and down your arms?

The reason I ask this question is because your guides always let you know that what you have heard felt, seen or thought is the truth!  The chills are a way of validating the information as fact on a spiritual level.

Often times in the dream state we are given information, or have visitation from those that have passed on.  I truly believe that the guy that died was letting you know that he was alright.

Even if you have not believed in life after death, or communication from beyond, do stay open minded that you may be coming into a realization for you to consider, and that these are the beginning of the awaking towards the higher self.

Pay attention to the chills.

Kathryn, I was so thrilled to hear another voice about the bible thumpers, who don't live life, appreciate the differences in beliefs, and Cherish that there are other levels of being spiritual,

without checking the pages of that MAN MADE BOOK,  written by a human man, actually several of them depending on which one your reading.  I too find that most radical Christian's are very judgmental, and cannot see or hear beyond the pages of the bible or their preacher.

You are right satin is not real, only evil souls that are hell bent on staying out of the light, and moving on.  Who are angry and filled with revenge.  This energy  is allowed to manifest though drugs, when evil takes over the living soul who has allowed this to happen by not protecting their minds and bodies.

Too bad they were not aware of this.  Most crimes and killings have been done by people that partake of the drugs.

We all have guardian angels that have elected to protect us when we return to earth, if folks would believe that they are around you and ask for their help, they would find that life would be more productive, and happy.  They cannot help unless you ask.

Picalina