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September 29, 2008, 2:59 pm PDT

Mama Drama

Sad really.  This mother, still following her kids around,  still doing them no favors.  Show some faith.  Don't be so pathetic and dependant on your kids for attention.   They are kids, maby THEY need some attention, not just from you!  That is your downfall.  By Not doing the RIGHT thing, by NOT getting a life and letting your kids have theirs, you have not done your JOB as a parent. WHAT are they learning from your behavior? You DO NOT own your kids, you CAN NOT baby sit them forever.  Encourage them and tell them they are smart enough to make good decisions! You are not being the ADULT here.  Get it togather.  Clinginess is weak and shows you have no power, no confidence, no strength.  Let them make bad choices while they are under your roof.  She comes home late, big deal.  Sounds like a case of jealousy to me....  or do you just need something  to bitch about.  This is just the beging, You have gone too far, for too long, she may not forgive you before she gets even, that's the plan you know.  Then what?   

 
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September 29, 2008, 3:41 pm PDT

It isn't the end of the world

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I am a mom who's had her own share of mistakes and learned from them.  That being said, I have always been open to my 17 year old daughter.  A very trusting mom (my husband says I was too trusting).  Always believing she had learned from me the "right" and "wrong" things to do.....when I allowed her to stay at a friends house (who we've known for quite some time) or allowing her to go visit friends after school (she's been driving over a year now), the only things she learned was how to lie to me (some thanks to her wonderful friends), how to sneak and do things you're not supposed to do......sex, drugs, smoking......needless to say, she ended up arrested at 17 and in Georgia that's ADULT AGE.  She says she's learned from her bad decisions and I try desperately to trust again but do not know how.  I have GPS in her phone and God help her if she doesn't answer it.  She's on probation and I have made her completely responsible to pay the court costs and probation fees.  She's a senior in high school works part-time, pays for her own gas.  I am hoping that she's learning how hard it is to be a grown up and be responsible.  Needless to say, her actions have set me up to be absolutely hovering over my 8 year old daughter.  Trust isn't in my vocabulary anymore and now I think all kids are liars.  Kids do not realize that for the parent that does trust their kids and then the kids go down a wrong path, it is so very hard to trust again.  My 17 year old daughter calls me psycho too.  She just doesn't realize its her actions that brought me to this point.  So Dr. Phil, how does a parent get past something like this?

Life goes on.  There is so much temptation in the world to not do the right thing.  Just because you give someone life does not mean THEY are going to live the way YOU want them to.  Jail?  Big Deal.  That's good for her.  God help her if she doesn't answer her phone?  You don't own her.  She does not have to do anything you say.  I think she knows that.  You need to know...  Being the dictator is not going to help you now.  Hello !!!  She has the rest of her life to disappoint you, be stronger.  The younger one is watching all this, you need to teach your kids they DO know how to make good choices, period.  Not trusting them - how can they trust themselves?  Bad decisions are part of becoming an adult.  Parents sabatage their kids because a part of them does not want their children to become adults, that's not productive...   Trust is a funny thing.  What is trust?   Why is that so important?  Trust your kids, why do you need to trust your kids?  Be thankfull you have kids.  So they are dissapointing sometimes, you were too. 

 
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September 29, 2008, 3:55 pm PDT

And...

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And how is this 9 year-old child supposed to protect himself from a pedophile?  Even teen-agers get abducted.   We're not living in a fairy tale world.  We're living in a world full of pedophiles and sex offenders.  People need to wise up!!  It doesn't just happen to "other people". 

Pedophile, sex offender?  Come on.  You can live in fear or live fearless.  Be prepared, not scared.

 
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October 8, 2008, 1:18 pm PDT

This may backfire

OJ Simpson is a sick sick individual.  He has problems and he needs to be somewhere supervised, locked up.  His greed and hate got him in this whole mess.  He has to be going mental about now.  If he didn't realize he was being set up by these morons, greed and desparity has clearly taken over, karma is a b_t_h ...  This whole thing sounds alot like entrapment though, hopefully this judgement doesn't get overturned.  Jail or not - his life ended 13 years ago.

 
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October 8, 2008, 1:38 pm PDT

Charge her with 1st degree murder

Charger her - Arrest her -  If anyone should be in jail it should be Casey Anthony.  If you want results you need action.  Charge her with 1 st degree murder, lock her up, go to trial, let her know this is serious.  If she talks great, if not, then she did she killed this little girl.  If i just got rid of my kid , dead or alive, dont know where my kid is, dont care either, someone would shoot me, mayby my own mother.  I dont have kids.   Lets get real here, are we in America?  Abortion is contravertial but crimes against children, not a big deal.  Pedophiles get ten years - if that.  They have rights still too, cut there balls off, cut it all off, they need to get the point !!!   Casey Anthony needs a reality check.
 
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October 8, 2008, 1:55 pm PDT

Yeppp

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EXACTLY!!!!!! MNEY MONEY MONEY!!!! So sad!!!!

I am sure Ron Goldman is proud that all his family wants is a pay day.  They probaly though - ya know. we lost Ron - But we just hit the jackpot!  Then they got NOTHING!  That would be disappointing.  They are no better in charater than OJ in my opinion because that money can't go to Ron.  What do they need it for, bragging rights???   They are so proud of themselves today, but they are a sad group.

 
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October 8, 2008, 2:01 pm PDT

10/07 Behind the Headlines: Casey Anthony and O.J. Simpson

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I had a novella typed out here and i lost it.
I watched that  OJ trial religiously. They did not convince me he was guilty. Sorry. not a big fan of circumstantial evidence.
I did buy the book and read it twice. didn't change my opinion of his innocence. The police focused on OJ and that was that.

Scott Peterson, I admit I didn't watch that closely but I have family in CA that lived by him and they said alot was not published (they think him guilty) so I guess I really can't say.  to me that didn't make sense either. divorce her, don't kill her and your unborn child.

that being said I feel people who do kill are insane plus there are alot of sick people out there. Yes, there are truly evil people but I don't think OJ falls into that category. This post took a completely different direction than my original one defending OJ. Again, this is just my opinion, to which everyone is entitled to have without being flamed.

OJ is a sicko.  At some point you have to ask yourself - if not him - WHO...  Think about it.

 
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October 8, 2008, 2:09 pm PDT

10/07 Behind the Headlines: Casey Anthony and O.J. Simpson

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Please I beg you even if there is a third or a fourth show,  please continue to cover this sweet baby until the end.  I cannot believe how STUPID people in AMERICA really are.  REAL TALK  They are F  ing crazy!

 

I also wanted to THANK YOU for having THE Goldman's on as well. 

 

Some people have no empathy in there hearts and 13 years is not such a long time ago!  They have been standing strong for there loved one...I would have done the same thing!

 

If you will have me, I would love to put these TRASHY good for nothing lameo AS$ HOLE JACKAZ%! In there place.

 

How dare they smear your name,   ON YOUR WEBSITE......The Goldman's  and......To think that DIABOLIC LIAR DID NOT KILL HER DAUGHTER>   I challenge ANYONE TO FACE OFF AGAINST ME.

Standing by their loved one, waiting to get paid.  They though they hit the jackpot, they counted their eggs before they had them in the basket and that was a huge disappointment for them.  Their greed and desparity is no different than this dumbass they have been chasing around in circles trying to squeeze penies out of him - For What ?  For their loved one?  Pull your head out
 
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October 8, 2008, 2:16 pm PDT

ding-dong is anyone home

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Sigh.... yes, I do believe him innocent and I know quite a few people who also do. Yes, I read the book 2 times and it hasn't changed my mind. I don't recall him bragging about the murders. The book was supposed to be fiction, IF I did it.
As far as this backfiring on him, I find it sad the Goldman's as Dr Phil even said,  drove him to his present situation by  harassing him. I find that just wrong. But if the Goldmans are happy then I guess all is right by them. I have a longer post on this topic where I explained myself better. Even found innocent he was still hounded and his life was not the way it should have been for being exonerated by OUR justice system.
Ok then i wont tell you santa clause and the toothfairy DONT EXIST...  What planet do you live on lady?
 
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October 8, 2008, 2:32 pm PDT

10/07 Behind the Headlines: Casey Anthony and O.J. Simpson

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I keep hearing the same theories about the Caylee Anthony case and I wonder why they haven't considered other possibilities like maybe the decomposing body in the trunk of the car was an aborted fetus.  Also, as disgusting as this might be, maybe she didn't kill Caylee and she sold her to someone who might be using her for child porn on the internet.  That smug look on Casey Anthony's face just makes me sick!

Who knows.  Who's child dissapears suspiciously and mom says   "she'll be back sometime"  ???   and we say  - thee months later " ok, when it's a good time for you "    Bull Crap !   In this case we may never know the truth is that's how it is sometimes but Caylee is getting no justice at this point.  Casey's mom and dad need to realize their daugher got rid of their granddaughter and they have to stop protecting her. 

 

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