Messages By: chelsea181990

k i am white but i just dont quite understand why African Americans hate that word. does it me a slavry term to them ?
but i think that if some one called me an n i could careless, but its true its all in how u use it, because when i was visiting my friends ( they think they r white gangsters) but anyway we always just kidded around and called our selves n's but the only reason was is that i know it doesn't affect whites as much as it affects blacks and other races.
but of course i would never just say it out loud cuze i respect what others think.
and so i would just use around my friends..
to me the n word is like the f  word its part of society and people need to get use to it but the difference between the 2 is that the f-word is used throughout all nationalities.
but the thing is i would not dare to use the f word because i find it more offensive then the n-word.

I can't understand y African Americans hate that word so much.
when i go to my friends who all think they r white gangsters we some times use the word to just be funny, not meaning anything personal but ya of course since i do respect feelings i would not use it in a public place.
but the thing is to me the f word and the n word are similar because people dont like using it cuz its offensive but....people r more willing to use the f word but i would rather use the n word.
its all in what u use the n word for, that people dont understand, i think ppl r just to sensitive and need to get out from living in the past cuz u aint gonna get rid of racism or the n word cuz all u can do is thnk back and take thngs as they now because this is all stupidity ppl need to grow up !!!!!
and its so totaly true when black ppl say the word to another black its fine but if a white person says it to a black its gonna be hell to pay like thats ridiculaus all the blacks r trying to prove is that they r hiprocryts !!
and if a person says the n word in their home as a friendly term then they should be allowed to u ppl dont have the right to tell others what to do !!
so my point is everyone just get the hell over it, its not gonna change so be come part of the times !!

i dont think a 3 year old can actually determine what gender is, and so i dont think they can say i want to be a girl/boy. they r only 3 !! its like child progodies, they r pushed to much and so its like them saying oh sure i do want to do this but really it was the parents urging to say it, it wasnt in there heart but there parents.

and when they grow up transgender is like being gay, if a boy was a girl and he marries a girl when hes older well thats being gay same with being born a boy. it was adam and eve not adam and steve !!

and how can any one question god ?? god made a mistake....i dont think so, thats a lil harsh.

when ppl say a person is just born gay, ppl cant be born gay its the same when ppl say ppl r born smokers, u dont see a baby born with a ciggertte in his mouth do u ??

lik OMG !!

like the poor kids what they have to deal with in this world today, there is alot of peer presure !!

and so im saying it is sort of the parents fault because they arnt wreaing there kids straight.