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September 10, 2008, 9:22 pm PDT
Working through pain
Quote From: mtnheart06I am a 43 yr old mom of 2 boys 12 & 10. I weigh 220 and am 5'6. I got divoreced a couple years ago, and wanted to look so hot when I turned 40, not I find I have re-evaluated that to look hot by 50! I found myself watching Dr. Phils first weight loss special while eating a brownie and cola !! I want to be thin and lose the weight in my head, but don't make myself do it. Like right now, I know the dog would love to walk but I ave dinner to make and have to go to work etc... all perfect sabotaging excuses. I need HELP !!!! I need you all to help encourage me to get off the couch, eat right and get active! I get winded so easy, my legs hurt from knee arthritis, and I have a lower back injury from a car accident that causes me pain, but rather than push thru the pain I use it as an excuse, it hurts to much to move ! I also work nights 7p-7a, and dinner is what I bring. I bring a salad, but have someone run out for taco bel at 2am becaseu I'm still hugry after a salad! Then I sleep all day, get up at 3pm, and start eating junk, then eat dinner with my kids before work @5pm, and then eat again @3am. God help me if there is chocolate at work !!
Please help me, be a buddy and lets do this. I want to lose 50 pounds. Hi, You sound alot like me. I have back pain and knee pain, I know it is from being over weight. So sorry to hear about your car accident. I can't imagine that kind of pain. I do take inspiration from my 23 year old daughter. About a year and a half ago she was driven over by a pick up. She broke her back in three places and tore every ligament and tendon in her back, she underwent a 10 hour surgery, they use her own rib to brace up her spinal cord, a cage, pin and rods were all put into place. She lives with lots of pain every day. She has lost about 30 lbs and has kept it off. She exercises every single day, no excuses like her MOM. I am so proud of her and need to start emulating her. She has expressed concern about my weight and is worried about me. I am so selfish in not losing the weight because I should not be giving my family anymore to worry about. I hope with exercise it may help your pain but don't do anything that would hurt you more. Maybe ask a doctor. Good luck and we can do this. Take Care Carrie
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