Messages By: efffy_

Apt analogy.

Ah, was this a trick question? You cannot be serious. Of course you don't have sex.  It is the same as a woman saying, "no." Does your inability to abstain from sex apply here as well? That would be rape by the way. I would laugh it this wasn't so sad. How about this scenario? She was allergic to condoms, and I couldn't say no. That sounds like a pretty interesting epitaph.

Entrap a man for child support. That is pretty laughable. Ruin your body, get fat, sick, give up your freedom, and risk your life for some paltry cash. Yeah, get right on that. I can't get pregnant... cheque's in the mail. I am on the pill...cheque's in the mail. I'm allergic to condoms... cheque's in the mail. Get it? Take responsibility for your own birth control. You cannot entrap someone into sex they do it of their own free will. How would you prove that someone intended to commit a fraud (baby)?  The new Trojan hidden camera? If you don't want a baby don't have sex because it is always a possibility.

Imagine, a woman being held down against her will while her baby is aborted because the father didn't want it. Doesn't happen you say? Then explain why over 10 million women are missing from the Indian sub continent. Women have the right to decide because it is our body. We take all the risks. Men are very angry they can no longer control women. I mean 'men' in general. I know there are lots of decent modern men out there. I was born of one, married one, and am raising one. I am raising my son to understand that women are not just vessels for his pleasure, that having a sexual relationship involves responsibilities to the future.

She wouldn't get pregnant... cheque's in the mail. Give me a break. Who said anything about predators? Two people refusing to use condoms are dumb and dumber. There is no predation involved. If your brother doesn't know how to use a condom get him a banana to practice on, and tell him to stop whining about being preyed upon. If she offered him purple kool-aid would he take it because he's thirsty? You can look that reference up because I suspect you are a child.

So? I'm sure we can go on forever with individual cases or angels and devils. It gets us nowhere at warp speed. Did the fathers lie to themselves about the condom they weren't wearing? There is no such thing as an easy pregnancy just degrees of discomfort and risk.

Why is getting her nails done a big deal, are her children starving? I get my nails done too... well I used to. I'm on a break. If she has fake nails they only need to be filled every 2 weeks, it cost about 15 bucks. If she gets them polished every week it's about 5. Do you begrudge the woman a bit of pleasure or time to herself because she's a mother?

The whole point is if you have sex there is always the chance you will create a baby. Be responsible for your own birth control, and don't blame someone else.( I don't mean you you I mean you in general).

It's not drama, it's the truth whether you want to open your eyes or not. Look at a history book, look at the news. You have your head in the sand. Have you ever heard of a global village, or humanity?  Men have no rights over a woman's body, and they do have a right not to be a father by keeping it in their pants or masturbating.

When men risk their lives carrying a child and giving birth let me know.

Women don't need to do anything but what they want to do. Last time I checked we were free... at least in the west.

What bed did the child make? Isn't it amazing how it always comes down to money. Men make their decisions at the bed room door, and if they aren't mature enough to understand the reasons why we need them out of the gene pool.