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September 18, 2008, 2:21 pm PDT

Foster Homes

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I've notice its the people who accuse and dictate to everyone else how to parent their kids who have the most annoying, rude, back talking brats.  Child welfare worries about some of the dumbest things.  Child welfare should be a form of government that I believe should be banned.

 

My daughter was bitten at the daycare.  Child welfare NEVER investigated it.  The police department was the only people who gave a crap and investigated it.  They investigated the bite nothing but the bite.  Didn't do a home inspection, didn't invade our privacy (not that they would have found anything if they had).  But the police did a better job and cared more then Child Welfare could ever have a concept of doing.  Or should I say, Child-We-Really-Don't-Care-About-Their-Welfare. 

 

So I say let's get rid of case workers who think they're better then everyone and above the law and place chldren in abusive foster homes.  Let's get rid of child welfare and use our police who are real trained professionals.  Also to the parents, grandparents, and everyone who have to worry about how others raise their kids.  While your watching my kids your kids are committing the crimes you complain about and leaving you grandkids to raise. 

I am  a happily married 44 year old woman that just happened to turn on the television and catch the story of "Ed" being told of his time spent in foster homes.  All of a sudden my stomach started churning as I recalled my time, (7 months) spent in a foster home when I was thirteen.  My sister and I were taken from our parents and placed in a home that consisted of 7 foster children and 3 biological children.  People that have their own children SHOULD NOT have foster children without first doing some heavy research about what kind of children they may be fostering and what kind of 'SPECIAL' attention the children may require.  I grew to hate the Department of Human Resources and anything associated with fostering abused children.  I hated my foster home. On one occasion I watch my little sister be taunted by the other children as she lay in the floor to have a diaper put on her because she still wet the bed....she was 12 yoa.  This did not have to be done with an audience of cruel children but it mattered to no one but me.  There is a lot more but right now I can't think about this period in our lives without becoming emotional.......By the way my little sister never recovered from her abusive childhood and relied on pain pills and alcohol to deal with the emotional scars on her life......she passed away 4 years ago from an overdose of prescription pain medication.
 

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