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October 20, 2008, 9:30 am PDT

10/20 Virtual Chaos

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Dear Dr. Phil,

 

Thank you for the way you help people through your show.  I am especially grateful that you are doing a show about online gaming addictions.  I have a 38 yr. old son who has been addicted for over four years now.  His life is completely shattered because of his addiction.  His marriage of nine years disolved, he hasn't worked for four years, and he has no life behond his computer game, World of Warcraft.  He is in complete denial that he has any problems other than depression, which I believe was brought on by his excessive gaming habit.  My son has a masters degree and was a successful manager of a huge corporation before he got hooked to online gaming.  He is not the person he used to be!  I am so grateful for the help, advise and support I have received  form the group, Olganon.  People, including the medical community, don't understand how destructive this addiction is to the people caught up in it and how it affects their family.  I trust your program will give the much needed knowlege and attention about this devastating affliction.

God bless you Dr. Phil!

THANK YOU for doing this show Dr Phil. I can't wait to view it this evening.

 

   I too was diagnosed with Computer addiciton back in 1996 BEFORE it was recognized as a REAL emotional problem.

 

   Before the computer I was a happily married woman with 2 grown sons and  grandchildren. I refused to see or accept that I HAD a problem at the time.

   I suffered a nervous breakdown, was diagnosed OCD, BiPolar, lost from 118 lbs down to 89, was on line 18 hrs a day getting 3-4 hrs of sleep, stopped eating , watching TV, reading, see  off line friends and ignored my husband.

   My marriage nearly ended one year later, we were seperated and I was staying with an online friend 1,500 miles from home. After 3 mos of intense help from my friend and a mental clinic there I started getting my head together and returned home. I was on several helpful medications and slowly became able to walk away from this machine.

   Luckily I was never in to gaming for real money but did play free poker a lot. Now I am able to limit myself to 2 hrs a day in poker and a max of 6 hrs a day on line .

   COMPUTER ADDICITION is REAL. It can destroy and KILL.

   Again THANK YOU for addressing this critical issue.

  

 

 
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November 15, 2008, 6:40 pm PST

11/21 Same-Sex Marriage?

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As hetero as I am, I don't have a problem with same-sex marriages. If two PEOPLE are in love with each other and willing to commit to be with each other solely and build a life together, a partnership and grow old together, then that, to me, is the definition of marriage. The gender of the partners is irrelevant.

 

Ironically, I've witnessed my gay couple friends having longer, more harmonious "marriages" than of my straight married friends. That's not to support running out, switching teams and partnering up with your same sex. It's just an observation that partnership/couplehood knows no sexual orientation, and possibly maybe those faced with inherent judgments and uphill climbs to be together have more of the stick-to-it-tiveness that others in a societally accepted marriage don't.

I am in favor of  keeping the holy sacrements of marriage between one woman and one man.

  I have many gay friends and yes, some are more dedicated and faithful than man/woman couples. However same sex couples should be content to have their private "relationship" or "unions" and not expect to have all of the legal benefits of man/woman unions. MARRIAGE is sacred. Everywhere in the bible it condems "the union of same sex partners".

  And I agree with some of the others that forcing children as young as 5 to learn of SAME SEX relationships before they even know what the "birds and the bees" of male/female unions are is WRONG.

 

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