Messages By: s_myth

My family is as racialy diverse as it could possily get...my mothers white she married a black man and had my older brother and me. After that relationship ended she married a man who was Mexican and German and tall they had my 1st little brother my much taller little brother. That mariage didnt last either and she married a nice Mexican man with native american mixd in and i got a little sister and brother out of it. We dont even have the same religions Judeism, Mormonism, Catholism, Christianity, Kabala even Muslim for a period. We look like a random group of people when we all go out...My point is you can love who u want to love. I have a great family and in this day in age interracial relations shouldnt even be an issue anymore

im  1/2 black 5'2' my fiance is 6' 5" and white i needed his hight to reach stuff

I sorta know what your goin threw im a dark girl that likes white men Ive never been attracted 2 dark men when everyone else was in 2 BoysIIMen i was into Nirvana. Black men ask me out all the time and ive always said no ,then they would call me a racist cuz im half white. I honestly think that the reason some of us are more interested in people outside our race is we have a sub-consious need to deepen the gene pool. Its a scientific fact if you marry ouside of your race the children have less of a chance of genetic disorders...ne way... I would ask them why its such a huge problem maybe its just fear of the unknown. Tell them that you love them and respect there opinion but ur growing up and you know how you feel not them. Ask them what would they have done if they were forced to be with someone they wernt at all interested in. I would really sit down with your mom and really talk it out and if your family is dead set against it maybe it is time to move out. Im not telling you to get in fight with them familys very important however so is your happiness....have you started seeing ne1 maybe if they got to know him in small doses they might change there minds...Please keep me posted id like to know if i can help more...good luck

i may not have any children but im glad when people use safe haven as a wayout...i stll hear about women leaving there babies in dumpsters and it chills me to my soul. Its never rite to abandon a child but when a mother takes her baby 2 a safe haven at least she is giving that child a chance to grow up.