I feel bad for this wife - that her husband is a cheater and will always be a cheater! Things just dont happen, you make them happen! Unfortunately, women like this give other women a bad name! I am so ashamed for this woman that she would allow a man to degrade her the way he has and that she has no self respect for herself and she would allow that! GET OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP! If not for yourself but for your 4 sons - do you really want them to grow up thinking that it is OK for men to treat women like this and that women allow this to happen to them and not do anything about it!
Its not who you are that defines you, it is what you do and if you continue to allow this to go on - then shame on you!
