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November 28, 2008, 7:12 pm PST

Drop your 9 year old off at the mall? Huh?

Ummmm... when  I heard the mom go on and on about how she thinks she is teaching her boy independance by dropping off in the middle of New York with a map and subway tokens, and told to find his way home, I actually began to cry. I have 2 kids and I am a relaxed mom. I have a 15 yr old who goes to parties, hangs out with friends, and all she has to do is call and check in. But to leave a child in the middle of town is heartbreaking. In a city where there were 26,000 people who had to register as a sex offender in 2007 alone, its frightening. Anything, anything, ANYTHING can happen! The moms attitude was like "yeah, but it wont." Honestly, its not  matter of IFanything will happen, its when. Maybe we should just stay out of her hair and start a fund in her son's name so when he DOES go missing, she has a place to get started. A banner that says "we told you so" can be optional. We are children's are care givers. Let them have independence at the park or at school, but not in a ocean of driving cars, kindappers, drug addicts, child traffickers, mentally ill people, you name it. I myself was invited into a man's van to get some flowers he was looking to give a  pretty lady about a year ago. I said no and called the police. Imagine if it was that little boy, all alone and said ok.  I hope Dr. Phil had enough sense to talk to this mom and invite her to re-evalute her poor choices. Its illegal to leave a kid alone in a car, or alone at home under the age of 12, it MUST be illegal to just leave your kid in the middle of nowhere. Someone call CPS!
 
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November 28, 2008, 7:16 pm PST

11/27 Extreme Moms

Quote From: angel111999

I CAN'T BELIEVE A PARENT WOULD LEAVE THEIR 9 YEAR OLD
SON IN A N.Y. CITY DEPARTMENT STORE WITH $20, A SUBWAY CARD AND A MAP.
BEING WITHOUT PARENTAL SUPERVISION IS A FORM OF "ABUSE".
IN THIS DAY AND AGE, THERE ARE CHILDREN BEING ABDUCTED
THAT ARE STANDING RIGHT NEXT TO THEIR PARENTS. WHY DOES SHE THINK SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO DO SOMETHING LIKE
THAT TO TEACH HIM "INDEPENDENCE" WITHOUT THINKING THAT SHE MAY BE CAUSING HIM HARM? THERE ARE SO MANY SEXUAL PREDATORS LOOKING FOR AN OPPORUINITY TO
TAKE ADVANTAGE OF OF A CHILD ALONE LIKE HER SON IN NEW YORK CITY!!!!
THERE ARE BETTER WAYS OF TEACHING YOUR
CHILD "INDEPENDENCE".
THIS WAS NOT THE RIGHT WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SHE NEEDS TO GO TO SCHOOL TO LEARN HOW TO BE A
PARENT..........NEEDS TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN "RIGHT" AND "WRONG".
WHEN YOU ARE A PARENT, YOU MUST BE "RESPONSIBLE" NOT "IRRESPONSIBLE"!!!!!!!.
You and me both, I cant believe there arent more  people on here freaking  out about  that. Some one needs to report her to CPS. So sad and so scarey, all at the little boy's expense. When he is older (if he makes it that long) maybe he will ask him mom "What the HELL were you thinking?" She's an idiot and doesnt deserve such a child.
 
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November 28, 2008, 7:19 pm PST

11/27 Extreme Moms

Quote From: lonedreamer

I know a lot of people in the United States that let their kids take public bus and subway every day too haha. Depends on the parents, obviously from this show. My parents settled down after I was 12. They were more dramatic when I was really little, but they weren't too bad. They just didn't want me to get snatched.
Moukky... be sure to take you children's fingerprints, hair sample and a current picture so when they are abducted, raped and thrown into a river you have something to identify them with.
 

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