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February 11, 2006, 2:32 pm PST

That doesn't sound like a nice job

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Yes I am seeing a psychiatrst,  

For those who might not know what a Corpsman is. He's the Navy guy with a Marine oufit that adminsters emergency field air, under the most hostile conditions. 

I have to apologize because I got you and another person mixed up. I am sure you noticed. LOL 

I am really glad to hear you are seeing a psychiatrist.  

So is that the branch of service you were in, the Navy?   

 
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February 15, 2006, 2:50 pm PST

My Heart and prayers are with you

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 Good morning.  Today, and probably through Teusday afternoon, I will be a bundle of nerves.  My daughter was born with WPW, a heart condition that causes the beat to go double-time.  It happens from extra tissue in the heart.  She was put on medication to regulate the heart, and has done fairly well for the last year, with only a couple trips to the ER to have her heart slowed down when she outgrew the dosage of medicine.  She has had to see a pediatric cardiologist at Vanderbilt Children's Hospital, in +Nashville, TN every couple months.  On the twentyfirst, they are doing a procedure on her, involving putting her to sleep and slipping this electro thing down her nose and touching it at her heart, or something like that, to see if it will go fast.  It is a test to see if she has outgrown the condition.  To get an accurate result, she has to be off her meds for almost a week, and took what could possibly be the last dose yesterday afternoon.  Now, we have to monitor her heart with a stethoscope more often than usual, to make sure she's doing fine.  I have probably checked her five times in the last couple hours, when she only needs checked about three times a day.  Just figured I would get the nervousness off my chest, and ask someone to wish her luck.  Not necessarily for out growing the heart thing (though that would be great), but not to go fast before her appointment.  I hate having to watch them give her an IV to slow it down.  I am hoping she outgrows it, but if she don't oh well.  She will still be my little Kiwi either way.  Oh, and happy belated Valentines day to everyone. 

I pray she has outgrown the condition. What a blessing that would be. It has to be the biggest fear you can come across when your child's well being is in potential jeopardy. 

  

My son has marfan syndrome. It's a genetic disorder that affects the connective tissue in muscles and also elongates the bones. There are man, many ways it can affect the body but the most severe obviously is when it affects the heart and lungs. He has to go to the cardiologist every 2 years for now unless something happens before then. Praise God he is fine for now. The only symptoms he has for now is having a heart murmur, very long wingspan (fingertip to fingertip), being tall, being very flexible, and having crowded teeth and palate. No biggy, I can handle that stuff. Just an interesting bit I have learned through this.... Did you know that you are the same height head to toe as your wingspan from fingertip to fingertip? Except for my son, LOL his wingspan is bigger than him. Even though he already almost 6 ft. at 13. 

Marfan is what a lot of athletes dye from. The over exertion the put on their heart is more than the weekend tissue in the heart can take & it causes the aorta to rupture. That on female olympic runner (can't remember her name, think it starts with a "J") died from it. Also Abe Lincoln had it. He of course died of other unnatural causes. LOL! 

Sorry....didn't mean to ramble on about my own issues. I am praying for your daughter and family and hope you get the best possible news.  

  

Heather 

 
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February 15, 2006, 2:51 pm PST

Amen to that

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There should be a V.I.P. AWARD FOR OUR DALLAS ANGEL SEA  although I do not know how to pull up Graphics still could someone find a most beautiful one for our MOST VALUED LOVELY SOUL Who if I won the mega millions in NJ would have 5 million on Friday and that is NO LIE so she can buy all those property's or do what ever she darn well wished! 

  

SEA YOU ARE QUEEN OF THE DAY!  TA DA!  xoxox 

She does deserve the VIP award.
 
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February 15, 2006, 3:16 pm PST

Depression

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 I don't know how this board works but I was hoping to get some suggestions or just plain old support.  My boyfriend suffers from depression.  He has been on 2 different medications.  Last  summer his estranged teenage son came to live with him and he started going off his meds and self-medicating with alcohol and drugs.  Eventually he lost his apartment and I let him come stay with me and my 8 year old son until his son graduated from high school (then he went back to his mother).  Well, he continues to self-medicate and finally he spent his whole paycheck (which we needed to pay the electric bill) and I asked him to leave.  He has been gone 3 days now.  I feel bad for him but I have to take care of myself and my son and not have bad influences in his life (my son's father is an addict also - so obviously I have issues - both my parents were alcoholics, sigh).  He is a totally different person off his meds.
I miss him and would like to help but I can only pray right now he finds a way to get help so I keep my distance (he works down the street from where we live, if in fact he still has his job). I don't know.  I just wish he would get help and get better.

It is one of the hardest things to ever do is turn away from someone you dearly love. You did make the right decision to not allow that around your son. You can become stronger as a person by being the best example for your son. I think when you do the right thing to show your children the best way to behave, it just becomes who you are. And in turn your son will be a loving, strong and honorable person. 

I have been married to my husband for 13 and 1/2 years and he is an alcoholic. It's one of the hardest things to deal with. Thia is the man I vowed before God to love through sickness & in health (even if I was 16 when I vowed it). It is so hard to turn away from someone that you love and I have been commited to since I was 13. We have 2 children that I want to be sweet and loving and giving (and they are very much so) but how do I justify exsposing to the darkness of addiction? I pray all the time for guidance on that. How do I honor the vows i made and yet allow that kind of example to be apart of my childrens life? 

You sound like a very good, loving mother. You need to do whatever you have to do to keep you and your son safe. And stop by the board ANY TIME for support. You will never meet a bigger group of supportive, caring people in one spot. Even if it's just for a cyber hug. Which SEA is wonderful for handing out.  

 
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February 15, 2006, 3:21 pm PST

Depression

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     I am hopeful that she will outgrow it.  I am lucky where she is concerened though.  What she has isn't fatal, or even really dangerous.  Only if her heart goes too fast for too long.  I have accepted that she requires the additional care of being checked with the stethoscope.  Don't get me wrong, when she was first born, and had to be transfered from Bowling Green, Ky, to Nashville, Tn, and hour after she was born, I was not so accepting.  I was scared to death.  But, she is otherwise a totally heathy, growing, happy baby.  If her heart beats too fast for a long time, her blood presure can get too high, and put too much stress on her heart.  I done some research on it, and learned that when you see on the news that a ten year old had a heart attack while playing baseball or something like that, it was most likely caused by the same condition that Kiwi has, or one like  it.  It just was not known about, because one of the only ways to find it is an EKG, and that's not really a standard test for a checkup.  But with medication, and observation, she will be fine if she has not outgrown it.  I am glad your son is alright for now.  I hope nothing happens to change that.  Thank you for your prayers.  :)

WOW, what a blesssing that they picked up on that immediately. But how utterly devastating to have her taken to another hospital like that. You always look so forward to seeing and holding your baby after 9 months of wondering exactly what they look like and then to have them "taken away".  

I am glad that they have monitored it and and now it may just have "fixed" itself. For lack of a better term. 

 
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February 15, 2006, 3:52 pm PST

Everyone is Amazingly Supportive Here....

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 This message board is such a wonderful place, filled with wonderful people!!!!  Everyone here supports everyone else.  I feel very lucky to have come across it.  Hope everyone is having a good day.  :):):)

I just kind of stumbled across it myself a few weeks back and they all had me hooked. It's amazing how so many sad, stressed people can make each other so happy and cared for isn't it. 

  

I'm really glad you came here. It's nice to "meet" you. 

 
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February 15, 2006, 3:54 pm PST

You are are so precious....

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my new therapist says that if there is nothing i can do about it ..then i should just go on with some i can do..... now how can i do that? i am just worth less person i guess cause i cant help any of my family or any one else with the real emportant things so what good am i. i am nothing when it comes to the important stuff. i cant even help my self with the important things...... im a worthless piese of nothing....

In no way are you a worthless piece of nothing. 

  

YOUR OUR SWEET, PRECIOUS TAM :) :) :) 

 
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February 15, 2006, 7:18 pm PST

Depression

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 What part of Florida do you live in?  (I looked at  the profile).  My dad recently moved down there about a year and a half ago.  Just curious.  He's living in Venice, moved from Sarasota a few months back.  We visited him in October this past year, and Christmas before last.  It's crazy how the temp changes from Ky, to Fl.  They were freezing, and I was wishing I could sit naked like my daughter was to cool off!  Anyway, I'm a naturally nosy person.  If it's too personal a question, just say so.  In this day and time of "computer weirdo-killers" you can't be too careful.

I live about an hour north of Tampa. I am originally from MI though. I have lived here about 4 1/2 years now. 

  

Oh buddy it's been cold here the past couple of nights. Yesterday morning our pipes were froze until about 11am. We got down in the high 20''s low 30's. Something like that. BRRRRR! 

 
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February 15, 2006, 7:24 pm PST

:( :( :(

Quote From: tamsue35

Okay. I will mentally come sit with you and we can talk, cry, be mad, be sad and then when we have done all that.... we'll smile. Even if it's only cuz that's the only thing left to do.  

  

:) :) :) 

  

  

 
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February 15, 2006, 7:36 pm PST

I think my blood has thnned a lot

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It is going to go done to -42 C with the windchill tonight, I don't know what that is in F but it is cold. I'm going to have a hot bath 

  

Laurie 

It used to be that the cold didn't bother me so much when I lived in MI. It got down right nippy there too. But When just about 9 mos. out of the year your sweating and it's 100 + degrees F. By april or may our ocean temps will be pushing 90 degrees. Right now we think the water is freezing because it's 70 degrees. Heck when I was a kid in MI 70 degrees felt like bath water.
 

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