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September 30, 2005, 4:43 pm PDT

You need meds

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Hi everyone a couple of months ago my ex boss and bestfriend kept telling me i needed to see a dr cause they thought i was bipolar.  My ex bosses husband is bipolar so she said she knew i was.  So i talk to my borfriend and he says not to listen to them but i went to the dr anyway.  Well she diagnosed me and put me on medicine but it made my whole personality change, im usauly happy out going, bouncing around, talking to everyone.  All of a sudden i was quite, nervous, paranoid, and really jelous.  My boyfriend that I was so sure i was going to spend the rest of my life with and i broke up cause he said he couldnt handle how i was.  My other friends were like where's felicia, one actually told me i looked like i could kill everyone in the room including myself.  So i quit taking my medicine.  I ended up quiting my job, i still live with my exboyfriend just have my own room.  My personality is back but i dont have the person i love most other than my baby.  I dont know what to do, i feel like im going crazy sometimes and i always blurt out stuff to him that i know i shouldnt but it just comes out.  He says it hurt hum so much when he said he didnt want me to go to the dr and i did anyway like i couldnt trust him and believe in him so now he will only be my friend.  He has this other girl that he is dating now he says they got close when we were going thru our problems and i would always acuse him of stuff and it made him not want to come home.  The other day i got so mad at him i told him i hope she dies.  And i meant it. Felicia

You sound like you need medication but for sure not the ones prescribed you. Some of the meds given for bipolar disorder actually have opposite the desired effect(s). Tell your boyfriend when he gets a doctorate in psychiatry then you will trust his judgement on such matters. Otherwise he needs to quit pouting, grow up, and HELP you! This is a tough thing to go through with or without the support of family and friends, but it is especially hard when someone is selfishly trying to control your life for their own benefit. You may need to get a second opinion. There should be clinics that work on a sliding scale near you somewhere, meaning if you are unemployed, they will not charge you. Good luck to you. 

  

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September 30, 2005, 5:00 pm PDT

I can relate...

In March of this year I completed the 2000 hours (whew!) required in the state of WV to be a cosmetologist, and passed the State Board on July 16th. I got a job in a shop straight out of school, and the girls there are paid straight 50% commission, so they are of the mind that they work for themselves. They hardly ever do their side work, they won't wash the towels they use, and as soon as they finish a client, poof, they are gone off to shop or smoke cigarettes. I was hired at an hourly rate, and told I would be put on commission AFTER I had enough clients to match my wage. They proceeded to hire 4 new girls, making it impossible to buid clientele, and after 5 months told me I had to go on commission. The math is easy: 50% of 0 =0. I never went back to work. I should have stood up to the manager and demand that they honor our agreement, but I have had enough confrontation in my life. Anyway, if your girls want to play games, there are qualified people out there who will work hard and appreciate a good boss, so I hope you quit imitating a door mat and stand up for yourself. Good luck!     WSP
 
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October 1, 2005, 2:02 pm PDT

Ships passing in the night?

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It amazes me how I can hear about so many women that would like to fall in love with a decent man, and here I am thinking I would like to fall in love with a decent woman.  Like ships passing in the night, only to feel the waves of another ship passing by.

That's a romantic notion if I ever heard one. Unfortunately it's more like two ships ramming head on at full speed. No one knows what happened and by the time you figure it out you're both sinking rapidly, only to discover poor planning has left you short on lifeboats.  

  

  

 
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October 7, 2005, 6:06 pm PDT

Pros and Cons

Although I haven't had much luck with online dating myself, both of my best friends met nice girls online, and one is even married now. The major problem I see is that there are a lot of "players" out there,  and they like to lie. I was all hot to meet this woman once who turned out to be in her late sixties. I am glad I found out about that before I embarrassed myself too bad. I think I might have noticed that she was a bit older than the forty years she was claiming. We should start a new thread here: Misadventures in online dating. I'm sure some of you have stories that are quite entertaining. I'll share if you will...
 
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October 14, 2005, 1:11 pm PDT

I am going to look like this again...

Unfortunately, I have put on about 40 pounds since this picture was taken. I want to look this way again. Are you guys going to help me, or do I have to do it alone?  I am going to do it one way or the other, but I would prefer some "company". I am learning to take the fat out of my diet, and what I have found out is that food can still taste great without kiling you. I am going to go ride my bike for a couple of miles, and when I get back, I hope to have some messages.
 
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October 19, 2005, 3:31 pm PDT

Here is a good chance to demonstrate our ignorance...

Unfortunately some gays are flamboyant attention seekers as well as anti-heterosexuals. I have met very few happy gays in my life.  Many of them have substance abuse problems and live through constant emotional turmoil. They do not, however, try to force their lifestyle on others. They have not mounted crusades to slaughter the disbelieving heathens in the name of homosexuality. They only seek acceptance. God bless them.  On the other hand, many  "christians"  I know are fanatical hypocrites who are determined to force their religion on everyone, and have little tolerance for those who would dare to be less fervent in their beliefs, though the different sects can't seem to agree on what those beliefs are. God bless them as well.  (My God is a kind, loving God.)  Is it just me, or does anyone else feel like they don't belong on this planet sometimes?  What happened to love and tolerance?  I don't recall Jesus dying on the cross for a select few, those few apparently having chosen themselves.
 
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October 19, 2005, 4:11 pm PDT

It never ceases to amaze me...

When someone tries to defend the homosexual lifestyle, I simply remind them that Leviticus 18:22 clearly states it to be an abomination... End of debate. 

  

However, we quickly forget some other "laws" from the old testament...Perhaps Dr. Phil could offer us some advice on this subject. Some of you may notice I am being cynical here... 
 

  

1. Leviticus 25:44 states that I may possess slaves, both male and female, provided they are purchased from neighboring nations. A friend of mine claims that this applies to Mexicans, but not Canadians. Can you clarify? Why can't I own Canadians?

2. I would like to sell my daughter into slavery, as sanctioned in
Exodus 21:7. In this day and age, what do you think would be a fair price for her?

3. I know that I am allowed no contact with a woman while she is in her period of menstrual uncleanliness - Lev.15:19-24. The problem is how do I tell? I have tried asking, but most women take offense.

4. When I burn a bull on the altar as a sacrifice, I know it creates a pleasing odor for the Lord - Lev.1:9. The problem is my neighbors. They claim the odor is not pleasing to them. Should I smite them?

5. I have a neighbor who insists on working on the Sabbath. Exodus 35:2. clearly states he should be put to death. Am I morally obligated to kill him myself, or should I ask the authorities to do it?

6. A friend of mine feels that even though eating shellfish is an abomination - Lev.11:10, it is a lesser abomination than homosexuality. I don't agree. Can you settle this? Are there 'degrees' of abomination?

7. Lev.21:20 states that I may not approach the altar of God if I have a defect in my sight. I have to admit that I wear reading glasses. Does my vision have to be 20/20, or is there some wiggle-room here?

8. Most of my male friends get their hair trimmed, including the hair around their temples, even though this is expressly forbidden by Lev.19:27. How should they die?

9. I know from Lev. 11:6-8 that touching the skin of a dead pig makes me unclean, but may I still play football if I wear gloves?

10. My uncle has a farm. He violates Lev.19:19 by planting two different crops in the same field, as does his wife by wearing garments made of two different kinds of thread (cotton/polyester blend). He also tends to curse and blaspheme a lot. Is it really necessary that we go to all the trouble of getting the whole town together to stone them? Lev.24:10-16. Couldn't we just burn them to death at a private family affair, like we do with people who sleep with their in-laws? (Lev. 20:14)  

  

I have little tolerance for people using ancient laws to prove their point against gays (and anyone who disagrees with them) when this law was clearly written for the Jews and is only practiced by the most religious of them in modern times. All good christians know that the Jews are going to hell anyway because they don't believe in Jesus, who by the way, changed the "law" when he died on the cross for our (everybody's, not some) sins. Get it?  

 
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October 20, 2005, 7:42 am PDT

You missed the point...

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Sorry to point out that once you pick and choose which laws of the bible to follow and those not to follow, you too are a sinner in the eyes of God and must ultimately answer to Him.  

  

As a gay male myself, my sins may be apparent to you, and you may choose to judge me accordinly, however, Laviticus also states that a man maynot touch a woman wile she is haveing her peroid. I hope you follow the Laws of God closely. 

  

Judge not least ye be judged. 

After 2000 hours in Cosmetology I have managed to make some gay friends. I am defending them, not those who would judge them...
 
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October 25, 2005, 6:35 am PDT

Care for an opinion?

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I'm a single woman by choice however I still long for the meaningful relationship every woman wants. THE ONE! I have numerous dates and numerous interested guys that want an actual relationship, however I find myself finding something wrong with them. Looking at myself I'm a hard worker with a great job I love my independence I don't think there's a person in this world I would call a stranger. I'm a very open and warm hearted individual. In this life I want a mate with the same traits and found a few but they somehow don't measure up to all aspects. Is 3 out of 4 a good thing...Should I settle....Or the golden question should I hold out for that one that sweeps me off my feet. But when is the sweeping going to start? That leaves me with this: Is there something wrong with me?
I know exactly why I am alone, and it's only partly by choice. I don't know you, but if you care to reveal a little more about  yourself, I bet I could offer a bit of advice. I am a "been there, done that" person who hopes he is done making mistakes, so I have a lot of experience to draw from, and it would be a shame to waste it. You sound to me like you are a pretty decent sort, and perhaps you are holding out for the best match possible. There is nothing wrong with that, but if you aren't careful, that can turn into years of being alone, with some miserable bouts of loneliness thrown in. Sometimes you can't see the forest for the trees.
 
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October 25, 2005, 2:39 pm PDT

I am so sorry...

I am so sorry for these people. I hope the fools at the NRA remember this tragedy and ones like it when they start crying about how we all have the right to own guns. Want guns? Fine! We need some strict rules to go with them.
 

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