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December 7, 2005, 4:02 pm PST

Love Smart

You can't weed out the "bad boys" from the keepers if you can't find the keepers.  Where do you meet the handsome, successful gentlemen - especially if you're over 50?   Unless you're willing to move, it seems impossible!  And I don't want a man who says "Dr. Phil?  What does he know?".  I want someone who thinks the show is worth watching.  I have dated so many guys who refuse to watch the show.  I'm convinced these men have security issues.  They close the door on even talking about relationships.  I want a man who is willing to talk about the topics that Dr. Phil covers.
 
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December 7, 2005, 4:05 pm PST

Question for Katrina

Katrina,  how did you ultimately meet your husband?  Was it at the fire station? 

  

Kaayla 

 
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December 7, 2005, 4:08 pm PST

Question for Katrina

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I am married now... but this so reminds me of them ol dating days and I started laughing... My girlfriend and I use to go to Firestations and ask for help with training to become firefighters to meet men... HAAA HAAA HAAAA but they would invite us for dinner, walk us around the station, invite us to dinners etc.... We vsited oh maybe 3 or 4 in our surrounding cities... it was fun and we got Great Food!!!! 

  

So Ladies... just an Idea????? Have fun, be confident and try... try to be yourself as much as you can. 

  

Good Luck, 

  

Katrina 

So Katrina, how did you ultimately find your husband?  At the fire station?????  I need all the suggestions I can get!  By the way, I'm an "older" woman - 52 to be exact!  These young girls think they have problems! 

  

Kaayla 

 
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December 7, 2005, 4:12 pm PST

Not 10 to 1 in Scottsdale, AZ

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Good grief, girls can go anywhere and meet guys, where can guys go to meet girls, where the guys are not outnumbering the girls 10 to 1? Do you women just sit at home? Give me a break, it is a womans world. Well, a pretty womans world. God help all the uglie's and us not tall, not so rich men.
Not all cities have this attractive ratio.  Where do you live?  Maybe I should visit!  :-)
 
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December 7, 2005, 4:15 pm PST

Match.com

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Just want you all to know that Match.com DOES work!!!  I met my dear hubby there 8 years ago.  We're both in our 40's now and between us have a total of five kids!  His, mine and ours!!  We've adopted two little boys, age 4 and 2 months, both at birth.  Don't give up, MATCH.com is amazing.....just remember there are alot of frogs out there before you get to your potential prince too. 

So I'm wondering, did someone have to move or did you find someone in your home town? 

  

Kaayla 

 
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December 7, 2005, 4:42 pm PST

Shoe Shine

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Dr. Phil missed one target-rich environment --- the SHOE SHINE parlour!    Discover it for yourself.  If nothing else, you come away looking great, and can have a great time connecting with others personally or professionally in the 6 or 7 minutes it takes, plus any waiting time.  Check out the line-ups, and jump in.  LADIES; we've been missing out for too long!   If your check list includes that he or she be well-groomed, the shoes say it all.  If they are clean and polished, chances are so too are other areas of our lives.  It won't hurt your career either.  I was once told that "like Palm Pilots and cell phones, clean shoes are a Power Accessory". 

  

  

Yeah, but nobody talks at places like the shoe shine parlour.  That brings up another problem.  Say you are in a target rich environment.  I'm not one to walk up to someone and start a conversation.  I always figured if a guy was interested, he'd approach me.  I guess I'm too insecure to just walk up to a gentleman and start a conversation.  And how do you begin?  What do you say?  Maybe I just need some good opening lines to get the ball rolling?????   What do you say to a guy so that he doesn't feel uncomfortable with you "hitting" on him or so that you don't look like a complete desperate fool? 

 
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December 7, 2005, 5:47 pm PST

Guys be heard!

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Tommy no one would believe our side of the story.

Sure we would listen.  That's why we watch Dr. Phil.  We want to hear all sides.  I'd love to hear more of the male side of this.  Come on Dr. Phil, let the men be heard! 

  

Kaayla 

 

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