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June 26, 2006, 4:51 pm PDT

SWEEEET!

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I am pretty sure that Dr. phil said that he wouldn't support her if she started dateing someone else..  what a cocky jackass.  she should defiantley leave him as soon as the shows over and same with the other woman.  that would take him down a notch or two. 

Wouldn't that just be a delish dish?! 

  

And every woman in America could be on Alert status and not touch him with a ten-footer.  I think Dr. Phil should have diagnosed him with a Narcissus Complex Maximus Muchisimos!  That man is so in love with himself how can there possibly be room for anyone else?  Wheeeweee, what an ***hole!  Good thing God loves him, 'cuz none of US can standz him! 

 
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June 26, 2006, 5:16 pm PDT

"Lifestyles"....call it what it is, please

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Aside from a vary narrow viewpoint of what is "Right" this show bothered us mainly with it's use of "POLYFIDELIS" it does NOT mean: a guy with two women.  POLY means many and FIDELIS" means, roughly, 'exclusive'. To those of us in this lifestyle polyfidelis is a term used to indicate a Triad or more of conscenting adults that keep their sexual intimacy between them, not stepping outside of the immediate group. The gentleman on the show kept throwing this term around, not knowing at all what it ment. The term he should have been using is Triad, or Polyamorous.  This is also not Polygamy (Polygamy is being "MARRIED" to more than one person) 

  

If anyone would like to find out more about the realities and possabilities of a polyamorous lifestyle there are many sites dedicated to this lifestyle.  

  

  

Righteous anger.  

   

It is about time Americans, GOOD Americans everywhere, rose up in righteous ANGER.  

   

Stop with all this "lifestyle" BS.  Lifestyle KNIFESTYLE!  You are hacking America TO DEATH.  

   

You have cut the moral underbelly of America from coast to coast, stem to stern, side to side, internal organs hemorraghing to the brink of moral death.  What part of that do you not understand?  

   

You bandy about terms like "rights", "narrow viewpoint", "define", "intimate", "exclusive", "consenting adults"....yeah.......?  WHAT KIND OF ADULTS(?) is the only question you should be asking yourselves.    

   

You have pursuaded black robed justices to forsake the Constitution and "community standards" and the true rights of communities to set standards.  Consequently, nudity, prostitution, pornography, homosexuality, rape, adultery, murder, sexual disease, community hospital's going bankrupt under the strain...you name it.  The collapse of society--why?  Because men have failed to live the way men should live anymore.  THAT simple.  "Narrow viewpoint of what is right"???  Don't give me that CRAP.  God just tried to make it EASY for us and gave us a simple TEN COMMANDMENTS and you couldn't/wouldn't/don't/can't even do THAT!  

   

A pox on your "lifestyle".  May it become like dust in your mouth.  May you find nothing but emptiness, a lack of "intimacy" no matter how many you screw, no matter how many orgies you go to, no matter how many you "include, exclude", whatever, upside down, inside out, toys, boys, goys, hose, nose, toes, whatEVER.  May you come to nothing.  May you come to the end of your rope, honey!  Can't tie a knot, can't tie a bow.  Don't know if you're comin' or goin'.  Throw down time!  And about THAT TIME, I hope Faith Hill comes on the radio singing, "I Surrender All"  ( to Jesus.  :O)  

 
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June 26, 2006, 5:23 pm PDT

Charlie not happy? :O(

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I gotta agree with Charles here...it seems to me that those of you who are making nasty comments to him since his update are just using him as your personal punching bag.

After all this IS The Charlie Show! 

  

He is just lovin' this. 

  

Siddown & shaddap, Charles!  (This is the Dr. Phil Show and you have simply been outed as the biggest jerk in America and Canada...no, make that the entire world.) 

  

Tell me....what redeeming qualities do you truly possess??? 

  

(This ought to be good, folks....his fax machine will doublessly run all night and day and night...you get the picture.  The New Charles in Charge Show............coming on NBC!) 

  

Stands for "Not 'Bout Charles" to those in the know! 

  

  

  

  

 
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June 26, 2006, 5:28 pm PDT

Lemme get this straight....

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sorry to say this is not even close to what a poly family would be ,this is called cheating!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

yes poly means more then one but that would require both partners agreeing to the terms of polly  

I am currently in a poly relationship.one husband andtwo wives.we are happy oh yes we have our moments of disagreements but we always try to work it out when i married my husband we both told each other that we was polly &  together we seeked out another polly partner 

  

 

Charlie Boy was/is(?) a major screwup for doing/wanting one man/2 women; but  

YOU and another woman and a man are OKEYDOKEY?  

  

No, you're not.  

  

 
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June 26, 2006, 5:36 pm PDT

Unclean, unclean!

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      I can relate. My husband and I have only been married 4 years come August, and had told me he is unhappy with our sex life and want's to try an "alternative life style". Swinging we've tried it before and I didn't want to but did for him I hated it, but I kept with it. Now he knows I hated it but wants me to do it again and I don't like being with other men nor him with other women. He is a truck driver and is gone 2 weeks at a time, and he stopped in the area and I met up with him. He had sexy pics of his ex girlfriend whom I don't know, but I was very upset. He said he only had them up once but I'm still very upset about it. Does he have a real reason to keep them or am I right, he's with me now and married he shouldn't need them he should just need me right??? Am I wrong in this???? I found more pics here at home and he wants me to keep them for him and I got mad. Am I right or just being Jealous??  

Just READING your post makes me have to GO TAKE A SHOWER.  I won't feel clean for a week! 

  

(You definitely deserve better!)  I think.  :O) 

 
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June 26, 2006, 5:42 pm PDT

That does it....

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Charles, you sound so different in this message. I am thrilled for you and your wife.  Marriage and family is the most important thing in life. I know you are beginning to appreciate the wonderful family you have. Stay the course, all my prayers and best wishes for you, your wife and your family!  

This is the side of you everyone in the studio needed to know was there. I assumed that because an incredible woman was married to you, you must have another side. I know my husband did have another side, unfortuneately he lived his life with the wrong side!  Congrats in being someone to figure it out!  

In re to: "Sure stirring things up here today.....all in having a good time this time" or somesuch nonsense. 

  

Click. 

  

I think the ENTIRE BOARD should IGNORE Charles.  Tracy deserves love, honor, respect, attention, counseling, hugs, advice, tips on crappy husbands, dealing with FOUR BOYS, and lots, lots more. 

  

I, hereby, am putting "Charles" on Ignore.  Not worth another minute of MY time.  

  

I've said what I've said and I think I have gotten the truest "bull's eye" of all the posts.  If you want to think he is "reformed", more power to ya.  CLICK. 

 
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June 26, 2006, 11:32 pm PDT

Screen name says it all...

Quote From: slave_lgm

yes we okeydokey cus we didnt cheat,both partners new that each was already poly ppland together we seeked out a poly partner,poly ppl are comon here but the only way its ganna work out is if agreed by all parties.charlie boy wasnt already poly he just wanted to see if the grass was greener on the other side and when he thought he could get away with it he then tried to make his wife agree to be polly 

  

...."Slave"....to mumbojumbo maybe. 

  

Listen, Dr. Phil said it well:  "Just because you were 'honest about it' doesn't mean it is OK.  That's like calling the banker and telling him it was you guys that robbed the bank!" 

  

You are in a THREE WAY deal.  God says TWO WAY.  Get it? 

  

If Charlie Boy is wrong to involve another person, YOU GUYS are wrong to involve another person.  Sheesh, where do you guys come from-- Scott Peterson Academy of Nutcases? 

  

Wrong is wrong is wrong.  Stop justifying what you are doing!  You are into adultery or polygamy or swinging, cheating or SOMETHING.  What you are NOT into is a godly, EXCLUSIVE, anointed, holy union celebrated or recognized by any state!  YOU're CHEATING!!!  LOL.  I don't know why you say...."it's ganna work out is if agreed by all parties."  (Where in thunder did you go to school? )  Thanks for the laugh.  I'm just shaking my head.  I feel sorry for you really.  But seriously, you need to stop it because it has very serious consequences.  It is called Hell.  

 
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June 26, 2006, 11:36 pm PDT

She's right...

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I can understand that it is difficult to cut the ties because you don't know what is ahead for you.  But think of it this way..... all the time you are wasting with him prevents someone coming into your life that will truly give you the love and the respect that you deserve.  Believe me life existed before you met him and life will exist after as well.  Its like a disease, if you don't stop it before it spreads it will consume you.  It will be hard at first but afterwards you will wonder why you put up with this type of behaviour for so long.  You only live once and you have a right to be treated with love and respect.  There will be someone worthy of you in the future....... I promise

Dr. Phil says it so well........."DO NOT let the sun go down TODAY...by midnight TONIGHT....decide that you will not let this man treat you this way.  Do not let ONE MORE SECOND go by!" 

  

She's right.  The longer you stay with this horrifically abusive person the longer you delay Mr. Sunshine from breaking forth into your new day!  Get to steppin', girl! 

 
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June 26, 2006, 11:42 pm PDT

Oh, au contraire...........

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I was in this woman's position a few years ago except my husband wouldn't even try to salvage our marriage. Oh, he said all the 'right' words but he said it best when I asked him to at least work at our relationship a bit and he replied, "If I have to WORK at a relationship, it's no good anyway! Love should be all that's needed." Now this from a nearly 50 yr. old man who'd been married to me for 23 years and fathered 2 daughters yet he still believed in fairytales?!  I was devastated when he told me he didn't love me anymore since I was too fat, boring and old for him and he DESERVED better.  He reminded me so much of this man on the show - arrogant and totally selfish and so certain whatever made HIM happy was worth any pain caused to anyone else. He also had been a successful man, respected by the community, and despite his claims to the contrary, adored by his wife and daughters but apparently that wasn't enough for him anymore. I guess what goes around, comes around, and the 2 women half his age he's now involved with will maybe give him what he deserves.

I haven't seen the follow-up to this show so don't really know how it is going now, but I think the wife would find it very, very hard to ever really get past all the heartache this man has caused her and her children. Whatever she does, I hope she and the kids come out the other side of this happy with the choices made.

Haven't you heard The Scott Peterson Type Husband hawking his wares on the board here all day about "how happy" he's made them all?!  

   

You'd think he strews the path to the Master Bedroom with rose petals each night to hear HIM.  Funny.........not a word from HER all day.    

   

Like he just waved his magic wand and poof-all was well and pronto.   

   

I suspect we will be hearing more from them at a later date.  They may very well make it.  It just seems highly inappropriate to hear ANYTHING from his smart, fat mouth right now but mea culpa and he isn't close to a country mile to accomplishing that.  I feel so sorry for those four boys.  Good God.  

 
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June 26, 2006, 11:54 pm PDT

Don't fall apart, baby....

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my spouse is addicted and I thought he was okay, but now things are falling apart again- HE needs help - and I am falling apart

What is he addicted to?  

  

It is not YOUR fault, baby.  It is not your fault, your sin, your responsibility, your problem although it does present a challenge to you.  Just see it as an OPPORTUNITY to grow.  How can you get through this?  Where can you go?  What friends are available?  Can you temporarily separate?  Write down all the pros/cons/actions available to you.  Reach out to others for help because no one should have to go through this alone.  

  

If he is addicted to drugs, consider INTERVENTION.  Tough Love may be the only love that is appropriate.  First thing, I would do is to go online and cough up anything and everything Dr. Phil has on the subject.  Make that #2.....#1>get on your knees.  "Prayer Changes Things" isn't just the title of a song!  All of our knees should have "surfers' knots"!  

  

Check into Alanon or whatever that group is that will help you distance yourself emotionally so he doesn't take you down WITH HIM.  I'll be praying for you.  ;O)  

 

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