Messages By: rhondayes

Are you serious? 

Americans are the most giving people on earth. 

We open our homes, our pockets, our lives, and our hearts. 

Every disaster americans drain their savings accounts and scream bloody murder when supplies are not reaching the effected quickly. 

We are drowning in price increases, gas gouging, Bush's incompetence, and we still plod on. 

We are being crippled from the weight of the billions and billions of dollars this war and tax breaks for the rich, are causing us and our children are going to have to bear. 

Do not ever say that we have sacrificed our compassion for our children. If we did not care so many of our children would not be able to remain at home until they are stronger financially. We would not have the space to allow returning children into the nest. 

You are an american, try behaving like one and stop listening to foreigners tell you what to think about your own. Show some loyalty. We have american sons and daughters dying on other shores and in other countries for other races and cultures, because of our selfishness in wanting to help people to the same freedoms and privileges we enjoy. 

Do not throw stones, check yourself, and tell your foreign friends to put up their own selfless behaviors for us to view before they try to tell us we are behaving selfishly with our own. 

Foreigners are something else, they behave superior to us, yet seek to emulate us, and the moment anything happens they yell for help from the same people they hate and disregard. 

There should be a freaking parade put on by all countries honoring Americans for the giving and sacrifices we have been asked to make over the last few years. 

Check Yourself, move out of America, and write back to let us know how well your freedoms and rights are being honored and how much giving you are receiving in your new country. 

Shame on you. Stop trying to fit in with every Tom, Dick, And Pierre or whatever and tell them to go screw themselves when they dare to say americans are selfish. 

Forgot to add: 

Bridgit gives her daughter the "silent treatment" 

What a lousy thing to do to your child. 

A child should never feel isolated from her parent's love and acceptance. 

What a guy fails to realize is that the woman who loves, cares, and respects them will love them all of their lives, in sickness and in health, no matter what body size they are. What a guy does not realize is that when he trades that woman in for a younger version, when he gets ill, and he will or when his body changes with age, that young woman won't stay with him longer than it takes to pack up her car and put it into gear.  

Gentlemen, when you are pounding your women into the ground one day you are going to look up and she is not only going to have lost that weight, but she is going to use her feet to walk out the door. Your wives are going to remember all of the hateful and cruel names you called her and carry the resentment with her when she is healthy and at her fighting weight. She is not going to stick around long enough for you to give her the compliment she would have killed for, just months before.  

Ladies, I love my son-in-law. He is a dream and perfect for my daughter, but I told my daughter because he is your husband you have to honor him and go the extra mile to explore every available avenue to make your marriage work. The only time you are not to fight the good fight is for the two deal breakers: abuse and infidelity. UNLESS, with the infidelity, you are able to forgive and forget. If you are able to forgive and forget  you must explain to your husband that since marriage is a partnership of equals (100% from each partner) you must even the playing field.   

I told my daughter to explain to her husband that if he cheats and you are able to forgive and forget you must have restitution in kind. The best way to get over one man is to get under another. It also works if you find you are forced to give in kind payment.  

They have a real peaceful and intensely loyal marriage full of mutual love respect and true caring.  

My son in law recognizes that I am not the type of mother that advocates falling on the sword. He also knows that his marriage is his to make a success or fail on his own merit. I am not involved in it, don't want to know about it, and don't want to be brought into the middle of it. He digs me too.  

I will not have my daughter become the victim of any man, he recognizes that as well. We have an understanding.  

My daughter gave birth to his child and put on weight and he drives me crazy with his requests for me to get out of his house so that he can remind his wife how beautiful he finds her to be. He makes me laugh and I leave their home. I really dig this kid.  

I wish all of you women a husband like my son-in-law or the same kind of man as my son-in-law for your daughters.  

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The young guy living in his mother's basement with his girlfriend and child made a statement that sent chills through me. This young guy said " the girlfriend was better and more fun when she had a couple of beers in her".  

When he made the statement regarding drinking I thought, "that is what happened to Whitney Houston."  

Whitney Houston was clean, sober, and drug free until she met Bobby Brown. They began to have problems when she told Bobby to slow down on the partying and drinking. I firmly believe he deliberately created in her a co-addict to stop her from complaining all of the time and to make her "fun" to be around. Whitney, prior to Bobby, was a family and church oriented person and never partied. She worked, interviewed, and made beautiful music. Bobby, for his own selfish reasons, deliberately  "turned" Whitney out and you see the outcome of their situation.  

When this young guy made that statement, I thought "Please make her see through the words to the subconscious intent" He could quite easily and before she could protect herself from his selfish intent make her into the next "Courtney Love" in order to shut her up about bills and adult responsibility.  

I may be wrong, what do you think? Did I read too much into his statement?  

What possible good could come from confronting this woman?  

Why have you remained in this marriage? The children is not a good enough response, anymore.  

What are you questioning? If you are still questioning you made the wrong decision. Rectify it now while you are still young and pretty. What does Phil say, "You are burning daylight" and Oprah, "Don't waste the pretty".  

If you have chosen to forgive your husband, forgive him and let it go, otherwise you are living a delusional life filled with pain and heartache and it is just going to get worse from here.  

Leave the woman alone, you can not make her feel sorry for what she has done to you, because she did nothing to you. She did what she did with your husband. He ruined your "life" and you have allowed it to continue.  

I suggest you get right with yourself and your finances. You need to decide to forgive your husband for real or get the hell out while you are still young enough to live happily and fully.

I agree 100%.

What I find most offensive about Jessica is the fake tears following every confrontation and then forgetting to sound regretful, instead of flippant. What an attitude she has...

Good for you and well said!

What A Bitch!

What mother raises their child to be so damn disrespectful to their elders?

She is an emasculating little bitch and when her husband wakes up and reclaims his balls he is going to hate her and how she made him look on national television.

what are you smoking?

Please do not tell me that you are one of those parents that are controlled by your children?

God help you.

I would kiss no ass of any child I gave birth to. Remember about the tail wagging the dog? Respect is due the mother, because if there is a loser she is it having to swallow her pride, apologize to an unforgiving bitch with a closed heart and arrogant attitude.

You guys have a knack for raising children to admit to nothing and with the beleif that the world is theirs and it owes them everything. You do such a good job that when you tell your children NO, they plot your death for denying them something they want.

You had better wake up, before you wake up dead because you made one of your children unhappy.

It is often amazing what human beings do to each other, based on a lack of understanding.

You are one very patient and admirable woman. Good luck with the second child, but continue to love the first one to erase the bad experience of the step-mother. A mental hospital??? Sad sad sad.

good luck to you all.