Messages By: shannan68

I so totally agree with you!!!!  He will never change--he hasn't changed so far.  He will always find a reason as to why he continues with his behavior--in his mind he sees no wrong in what he is doing.  I just wonder:  Does he really want to change?????  If he wanted to he would have after the first show.  his continued behavior answers this for himself---He is happy in his behavior.   

She needs to get out--if she doesn't get out this time---then he is allowing this behavior and approves of this inappropriate behavior. 

Love does not solve everything--you can't stay with someone just because you love him--not if he continues to act this way.  

He will never change!!  Like the saying goes---ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER!!!!! 

He has continued this inappropriate behavior even after the first show.  He continues to have contact with the other woman.   

I just can't understand why this woman has stayed with this man after all this time.  I can understand the first time trying to work the marriage out--going to counseling services.  But he has showed no improvement--he has made very little change in his behavior.  

To me I think he likes doing this--to me he likes--HAVING HIS CAKE AND EATING IT TOO!!! 

This woman should show him the door--either the front of the back door--and push him on out of her life. 

No woman deserves this type of treatment from a man.   

And the other woman--does she enjoy being the OTHER WOMAN??? 

To him this is a game he is playing--he is playing games with everyone involved. 

He is not being a good upstanding role model for his children. 

I wish the children the best of luck in all they do and hope this does not affect them in their future lives in how the treat and love women. 

I have been a nurse for 20 plus years and have always worked in the mental health field.  I have always felt working with the mentally ill was my calling in the nursing field.  Currently I work with the severely mentally ill--those who can't function in todays society.   

The info on todays show I hope helps to open the eyes of many people--people who would like to push the mentally ill away and not have to deal with it. 

I hope this show helps people and family members of those who suffer from this terrible/life changing disease--i hope it gives them some helpful info--and HOPE!!! 

Thank you for this wonderful show--Keep up the good work--I think you should do more shows dealing with mental illness--and helping their family's deal and cope with this terrible diseases. 

We will never know what occurred on that night--none of us.  The only two people who knows are those two who was there--and one is no longer with us on this earth.   

This is a terrible/tragic incident--and the most terrible thing is for a mother to bury her child.  That is not how it is supposed to be.   

Personally I can see both sides of this incident--but I could not make a decision on what happened-nor would I want to.  Because I am sure there is much more to this story that what we know--No matter who is guilty--There is only one person--our God up above knows the true!! 

I know both families are suffering terribly--and both families need much help in dealing with this incident. To help them begin healing and going on with their lives. 

My heart aches as a mother for both of these mothers.  I would not want to be in either one of those mothers shoes. 

Stay strong--and be safe and hold your children close--because in a blink of an eye--they can be gone. 

I feel that Enza is a big part of the problem--you never down grade a child's mother NO MATTER WHAT in front of that child.  This mother has had problems but I am happy that she is stepping forward and getting the much needed help for her daughter and for her self.   This mother has taken a big step--putting it all out into the open.  Also I feel that Enza should be removed from the house--and get help for herself--she is way over stepping her bounds. 

I feel sorry for the grandma in this troubled family---she is stepped on, taken advantage of in many different area's.  This grandmother really loves her family and just wants peace and love back into the house.  This grandmother sit's in the background--tries not to over step her bounds--but I feel this grandmother has alot to offer.

Dr. Phil---I hope you can help this teen and her mother get back onto the right track--and I hope you can also help Enza is causing a big problem--that she also contributes to this problem--even though she doesn't think she does---she is not prefect-and I hope Dr. Phil opens her eyes to this.