I am a 39 year old female and I am worried about several things. First my 43 year old sister was told she has Breast Cancer. I firmly believe that she will be fine when all is said and done. Cancer does not run in our family so it was a HUGE shock. The same week I found out about her my Husband of 6 years was told that his older brother has liver and stomach cancer and has very little time to live. I worry about my husband and his feelings. He lost his older sister a few years ago to cancer. Cancer runs in his family. My husband has a lot of health issues but his main issue is his weight. He weighs in around 500 lbs. I have tried everything to get him to loose weight. The only reason I want him to loose weight is because I want him to live. He is 51 years old. I am so afraid every day that he will not be here the next day. I don't know how to help him deal with his issues and still deal with my own issues. I worry every day. I don't eat very much because I am so worried all the time I get sick everytime I eat. I don't know if my husband will be able to handle the loss of his brother. I just don't know what to do. Any advise any one can give me on any of the issues I have shared today please, please share.
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