Messages By: blueangel777

While attempting to avoid a huge and detailed discussion, I have to say that if you view our history as biological beings, saving your virginity for your "soulmate" is NOT the way it's "supposed" to be. 

Evolutionarily speaking, we have sex to procreate.  Evolutionarily speaking, love has nothing to do with sex. 

This is NOT to say I believe love & sex are unrelated.  It's quite wonderful to love the person with whom you are intimate. 

However, it is only your personal view that sex before marriage is wrong.  Yes, it is a view that is held by many - but it IS a moral OPINION and nothing more.   

To keep the post on topic and refer back to the show, I feel that if the 20-year-old guest is happy with his choice to remain celibate until he meets the woman he marries, the choice should be his.  I have no problem with this.  I only take issue with the statement that this is "the way it's SUPPOSED to be." 

After reading some of the messages, I want to say to all the women that Men are eveywhere.   

I don't believe in the bar scene, or online dating.  Been there. Done that.  Long enough.  Didn't work for me.   

Let me tell you a little story; 

I have been in bars for 1 year before I met my previous partner.    

I was tired of being alone.   So, I planned a trip to put some excitment in my life. 

I was looking to take pictures for my passeport.  He was working at that photo shop.  We started talking about the prices and the service.  I was in a great mood because I was travelling.   He was mesmerized because of my positive attitude and enjoyable mood that I was in. 

The conversation led naturally to a more personal topic where I learned that he was single.  I was feeling so comfortable within my skin that I invited him to join me in the little bar where I was heading later.   

He came.  It lasted 4 years. 

I grabbed an opportunity,  taking the risk of being rejected.   All that time spent in bars where the men are just oooohhh so not ready to commit.... what a waste of time.  I just needed to speak to strangers.  There is more quality there. 

Have I been rejected in the past? Sure!  Many times.  Everydody does.  Cute or not.  Do you see J Lo or Jennifer Anniston having the best time with men?  Their beauty doesn't seem to serve them better then the rest of us. 

I am not a supermodel.   But he made me feel like a princess for 4 years.  We broke up because we stopped "dating".  The spark was lost. 

Men are everywhere 

Good,  Available,  not Supercial,  Wanting to Comit Men are everywhere.    

I think that to be successful at dating, you need to have that vibrant feeling of a "million dollars" and some techniques from Dr. Phil,  develop some abilities to talk to strangers and you will sure find the "One"  

Overweight or not.  

This is Lily.  I loved these two shows about LOVE SMART.  I am married, but I love to see happy young people meet each other. 

Great show, Dr. Phil. 

Lily 

I watched the entire show, quite eagerly...and enjoyed every morsel.

Exercise

Diet

Nutritional

Facial masks

Clothing ideas

All the things that one needs to get back from the frump to the foxey...

No-one knows where tomorrow will take them to...knowing what things are out there to help us take back that which gravity has removed from us...isn't a bad thing.

Love, Light and Peace

We Are All Blessed

Tonie