Messages By: mrsparker

No potty training the kids WHAT????? the kids will need Dr Phil for a long time.  Thank God Dr. Phil is still young enough to give these kids the years of help they will need.  I dont understand why the kids don't do it they are old enough to know to use the restroom.  Don't they go to school??  Other kids are really mean don't they get teased?  This is WAY WRONG!

Why did she let this man arround her child after what he did to her.  My father molested my oldest sister and he only saw my daughter in my presents never alone.   Not even if I had to use the rest room.  I dont understand why people  say don't smoke don't drink  but say nothing about don't leave your child alone with the person that molested them. 

If I suspected some one had molested my child I would get help for them ASAP.  I will never understand why people don't get help dealing with this.  I baby sat for a little boy I knew had been molested after only watching him for one day.  I asked his mom what had happened and what she was doing about it.  She told me that he had been molested by a friend of the familys husband.  But she said she was not going to press charges or get the child counciling, this was to much for me.  I stopped watching him because I knew he was hurting and could really do little for him.  You had to put him it the shower and use the wand to wash him as he would scream if you touched him to even clean off the BM.  I hope that he will seek help for himself.   I meet every person that lives in a home that my daughters are going to stay at.  I have told my daughters that no one touches their body unless they want them to. I felt like I had to tell my daughters what can happen so they know and would not be scared to talk to me as we already broken the ice on the subject. Not telling your child what is right and wrong leaves them scared to tell and ashamed of what others have done to them. Talking to your child can save their life.  Sorry about the spelling I never could spell.  I love spell check. 

It is hard to find friends that enjoy  and value the same things you do.  I have few friends because I have been a stay home mom for 16 years.  All the people I grew up with are just now having children.  So when I was home changing diapers they were out clubbing and having fun at college.  Now my kids are old enough that I can go out for the evening but now they have to find sitter and worry all night if the sitter is really watching the child.  My friendships with those people are not close.  I feel lonely at times so I started going to classes for things I enjoy to meet others who like the thing I do.  It has helped some good luck.

Mom in Michigan

I live in brighton and my sister's children go to stockbridge schools.  I would love to talk my e mail is avoninbrighton @att.net

I live is brighton and Have two daughters 16 and 11.  My 16 year old is giving me all kinds of problems.  But what I need most is a few good friends.  I can't seem to find any one who remembers friendship is a two way street.  I hope to meet some new friends here.